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When you meet someone and get their mobile number and want to contact them
1) How long do you wait on average?
2) Do you first call them or text them?
3) If you text them - how long before you switch to actually calling?
1) How long do you wait on average?
2) Do you first call them or text them?
3) If you text them - how long before you switch to actually calling?
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Ill ask if they want me to phone and then do if they want. If no txt is easy way to get to know wach otehr.
I txt as soon as poss if I really like them however myuch I try to hold out
Mr_Wobble
BUT if I did, I wouldn't ring them, I'd just text them til they rang me. When I ring people I get nervous and shaky and stuff (I'm a paranoid nervous person) but when they ring you and you don't know about it you don't get a chance to get like that lol.
i'd probably give them a txt within the next few days...depends who it was etc
calling a person you just met is to nerve racking but texting to get to know them kinda breaks the ice and lets you get to know them better before the dreaded call.
It's funny when girls ask me for my number in a pub/club, I always make a random phone number up or scribble it so she can't see what's written
*edited to add*
Because I have a girly
:yes: Although I'm the odd person who still gets nervous. Heh.