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The beggining of a realtionship advice needed
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I have just started going out with a girl ive liked for ages. We talked lots before i was going out with her but now if were in my room or on the phone its like it feels akward, esp on the phone - our convo's last like 10-15 mins.
Is this the end already or is it common. I hope it doesnt mean the beginning of the end because i really like her. Btw we do have alot in common like the same tastes in music and views on stuff like drugs and clubbing, but u cant talk about the same stuff all the time.
Is this the end already or is it common. I hope it doesnt mean the beginning of the end because i really like her. Btw we do have alot in common like the same tastes in music and views on stuff like drugs and clubbing, but u cant talk about the same stuff all the time.
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Just talk to her bout this problem. It will make your conversations longer aswell!
No mate, it isn't the end, so dont worry!!
have u tried goin out with a big group of m8s?? cinema, bowling, anywhere where you can have a laugh. soon ul be having such a gr8 time, that ul completely 4get all your nerves.
also, try talkin to her, even if its just asking does she feels the same
hope this helps.
:: -- Before i went out with my first love, We were best mates told each other everything and were already very flirty, when we got together it was at a massive house party so you can imagine wat was going on anyway.. We just blended well because of what was going on as it was ^^
Go out with a group of friends, If your in your room watch a movie or talk to ppl on tha internet, generally enjoy yourself
Lifes short make the most of the time you have with people
talking to people on the internet- when your problem is communicating in real life, i.e. when vocal chords are involved- isn't really going to help now is it? it's just a further denial of the outside world, assisted by the computer screen barrier.
What i mean is Talking to other people may get you talking to her e.g Going out with friends via tha internet or wateva or some-thing u see might grab conversation