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My new partner
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hi everyone
i havent been on here for a while now but i have a small problem so i would be very greatful if you could offer any help or advise!
the thing is, i used to see someone and now i have a different partner, and i used to be in love with the previous partner, but now when i am doing stuff with my new partner it just doesnt seem to work, and if i am masturbating alone at home, thinkin of my new found love doesnt seem to work, yet the person i used to see, well, i tend to end up thinking of them!
im really confused by this and i am a bit worried, can anyone help me?
thanks
i havent been on here for a while now but i have a small problem so i would be very greatful if you could offer any help or advise!
the thing is, i used to see someone and now i have a different partner, and i used to be in love with the previous partner, but now when i am doing stuff with my new partner it just doesnt seem to work, and if i am masturbating alone at home, thinkin of my new found love doesnt seem to work, yet the person i used to see, well, i tend to end up thinking of them!
im really confused by this and i am a bit worried, can anyone help me?
thanks
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I hope that helps.
Obviously it will be hard to forget someone who you were in love with. give it time and you will get over them
... but maybe it's fair not to go out with this other guy in the meantime?
It's a guy
Well the buggering part still holds true assuming its a gay guy? Ho Ho Ho
the thing is, its been about 2 months since i was with my last partner and i dont feel the same for them now! and i know that for sure and i dont *think* i would take them back - well i no i wouldnt cos i have sum1 else, but i meant if i was single,and this new person... i really like them and im comfortable doing stuff to them, i dunno, maybe its just cos ive only done something with them once and i was nervous?!!?
but i really do like this person and i dont want to tell them its over, cos i would really regret that!
any more views?
really appreciate it thanks again!!!