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Has anyone...............................?
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Has anyone lied to there partner about how many people they've slept with??? If so i would like reason's why (if you can)
Peaches xx
Peaches xx
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You went on a 'thing of one night stands' and you're not even 15 yet?
That's fucked up.
A sane person with morals is on thesite Sex forum :eek2: what has happened?
not judgemental at all.....:rolleyes:
And I don't lie. What's the point in underestimating yourself?
"Would I be happy revealing this number to my future boyfriend/girlfriend?"
Well said! And as for the point of this, as long as you are honest about your current sexual activities, and your health, does it matter how many or few people you have been with?
It shouldn't matter at all, as long as you're happy with it. But if you lie to a partner about it then you're obviously not happy/comfortable with it. It shows insecurities in any relationship.
...come on, by now everyone must know why not
Sounds like American Pie's 'rule of three'
Take the number of girls a guy says he's slept with and divide by three.
Take the number of guys a girl says she's slept with and multiply by three.
That's your true numbers.
:rolleyes:
Male.
I claim I've slept with 0 women...
0/3 = 0
WOW! It works!
That's American Pie for you, as if certain men are actually sweet and innocent, they're just pretending to be womanising scum.
i haven't lied to serious a partner about it, only to people who ask who i do not believe are mature enough for the real answer. I'm not insecure, i just don't believe it's everyones business.
*agrees* that's what i couldn't be bothered to post
go my_name :thumb:
i mean, wheres the fun in that.
If the secrets don't hurt your partner it shouldn't matter
Having said that, I've only ever slept with one person - my current boyfriend - and I don't think I'm likely to have one night stands, so maybe I'm a little biased because I don't have as much to talk about!
Being shit-faced is an excuse you use when you're 17 and you pull a minger.
Even when you're drunk you know whether or not you really want to fuck someone.
not necessarily. what if your at a house party, too drunk to even get off the cough without falling/passing out, and then somebody sleeps with you... then you don't know whether you want to sleep with them or not, it just happens.
There's nothing better than the truth.
Anyway, if you're in a trusting a loving relationship, surely coming off as a slut/manwhore when telling the truth, wouldn't be a problem as your partner loves, trusts and respects you no matter what? Surely they would love you anyway?
Or am I just naive?
Ilora x