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embarrassing blow job question
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*sigh*
Okay...
*goes embarrassed*
Here goes.
Yesterday, I was talking to my boyfriend on MSN, and we were talking about sex (it's an online relationship for those who don't know yet, he's coming in 10 days... so yeah...) and I told him I was really nervous for giving him a blow job. But that I wasn't nervous about the actual act, just on how to start... Like, when would be a good time to go venture south, or if I should just lay him down, take his pants off, and go... Anyway, he tried to comfort me a bit and tried to make me less nervous, but it didn't work so well...
So yeah, basically... Does anyone know a good way to go on down there for the first bj? After sex, before... During...
Any advice/help/suggestions are very much appreciated...
Okay...
*goes embarrassed*
Here goes.
Yesterday, I was talking to my boyfriend on MSN, and we were talking about sex (it's an online relationship for those who don't know yet, he's coming in 10 days... so yeah...) and I told him I was really nervous for giving him a blow job. But that I wasn't nervous about the actual act, just on how to start... Like, when would be a good time to go venture south, or if I should just lay him down, take his pants off, and go... Anyway, he tried to comfort me a bit and tried to make me less nervous, but it didn't work so well...
So yeah, basically... Does anyone know a good way to go on down there for the first bj? After sex, before... During...
Any advice/help/suggestions are very much appreciated...
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Before can be nice as part of the foreplay, but it depends how far you want to go with it, so to speak.
all good fun tho.
Yeah, just let it happen naturally. While you are making out, before sex! Has to be before, because then the sex is the climax, whereas blow-job after sex, sure, its nice, but its still a bit of an anti-climax. So, while you are snogging, get it really passionate kissing, then let your hands roam over his body, finishing off by grabbing his crotch, get him hard, then go to whip it out, all still whilst kissing, then start giving him a hand job and after a bit just start kissing his neck, then his belly, and then come to his dick, and suck it!
Don't fret about it too much. There's a good joke that comes to mind...
"So, what was the worst blow job you ever had like?"
"Bloody fantastic!"
Mr_Wobble
After there undone slip you hand in and begin giving him a handjob- just to wake him up then slowly go down his body gently kissing on your way till youve reached your destination!
Then work your magic and you'll have him screaming!!
thats all he is waiting for anyway.:D
I bet he will!
Zombie,
Have you ever met this guy ?
Just thought someone ought to say ... "Be Careful"
if you have only ever chatted on MSN then maybe not the best thing to go straight at it when you first meet.
Also if you have never met before, please be sensible and meet in a public place.
ChewIt
oh god, i'm not going to see my bf for two weeks, goddammit. now we are having sex LIFE IS GREAT!!!