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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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how do you introduce the using of condoms to your boyfriend when you have never used them together before?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: ?
    Originally posted by oh dear
    how do you introduce the using of condoms to your boyfriend when you have never used them together before?


    If you're comfortable enough with him to have sex, you should be comfortable enough to just talk to him about them... Or to pull one out of a your nightstand drawer before you have sex/while making out.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just say "which type are we trying today, flavoured or ribbed" :p

    Do they still do ribbed? lol been that long since I used one :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ribbed, you know, thats one thing ive never tried, ribbed condoms. i see a new thread starting :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just take the condom out and say we need to pratice sex safe and give him the condom, he'll know what to do with it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Eul Grepus
    ribbed, you know, thats one thing ive never tried, ribbed condoms. i see a new thread starting :p

    Well tis about time you tried em :D

    Id better just add while im here I dont use condoms because im married, do not have sex out of marriage and ive also had the op, so thats why I dont use em........before you all start shouting at me :p
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    ClaireBearClaireBear Deactivated Posts: 467 Listening Ear
    This may, or may not, be useful. But it's always good to have a look...
    http://www.thesite.org/magazine/sex_and_relationships/insisting_on_condoms.html

    CB
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    has he ever used one before?

    "dont let the first time you have sex be the first time you put a condom on"

    if put on wrongly they can split easily etc
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You hand him a condom and say 'no more sex for you until you use one of these mister'

    Like zombie said, if youre ready to have sex then you should be comfortable with talking about it and using condoms.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by BritJames
    just say "its gunna get wet in there so best put a mac on"

    and do it by hand if he refuses :)

    if somebody refused to put one on with me theyd get a slap.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by BeckyBoo
    Id better just add while im here I dont use condoms because im married, do not have sex out of marriage and ive also had the op, so thats why I dont use em........before you all start shouting at me :p

    :eek2: Nuns are celibate, just like monks! You have sex yet you are a nun? :eek2:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Mr Doughnut
    :eek2: Nuns are celibate, just like monks! You have sex yet you are a nun? :eek2:

    :yes: she does, you know

    Have you never read the letters of Aberlard and Héloise? :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Meryn
    :yes: she does, you know

    Have you never read the letters of Aberlard and Héloise? :lol:

    Oh, so THAT'S why she's a "norty" nun. :p:p

    Nope, haven't read those letters. What are they about?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Excuse me people she can see what you are writing :p

    and she is *Norty Nun* :naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    OI shurruppppppp dont reveal my confessions :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by BeckyBoo
    OI shurruppppppp dont reveal my confessions :lol:

    :eek2:

    You disgrace me! :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just tell him he wont be getting any unless he wears one. He'll wear one ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Mr Doughnut

    Nope, haven't read those letters. What are they about?

    Abelard was a famous medieval philosopher/theologian and he had a stormy passionate affair with a 17 year old girl called Héloise. Her uncle wasn't very impressed (Abelard was meant to be her tutor, so he kind of abused his position) and it all got messy and Héloise went into a nunnery. I can't remember whether it was before or after she took the vail, but on a couple of occasions they shagged in the church on the pulpit. Even years after, she still thought of it and him, and wrote in a letter that when she was meant to be praying she was actually thinking of all the naughty times they had together and her heart still burnt with desire for him.....

    But Abelard's probably best remembered for having been castrated by Héloise's Uncle's henchmen!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Meryn
    Abelard was a famous medieval philosopher/theologian and he had a stormy passionate affair with a 17 year old girl called Héloise. Her uncle wasn't very impressed (Abelard was meant to be her tutor, so he kind of abused his position) and it all got messy and Héloise went into a nunnery. I can't remember whether it was before or after she took the vail, but on a couple of occasions they shagged in the church on the pulpit. Even years after, she still thought of it and him, and wrote in a letter that when she was meant to be praying she was actually thinking of all the naughty times they had together and her heart still burnt with desire for him.....

    But Abelard's probably best remembered for having been castrated by Héloise's Uncle's henchmen!

    Oh! So Becky is TheSite's version of Heloise? :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Mr Doughnut
    Oh! So Becky is TheSite's version of Heloise? :p

    Who knows :confused:;)
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