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how do you introduce the using of condoms to your boyfriend when you have never used them together before?
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If you're comfortable enough with him to have sex, you should be comfortable enough to just talk to him about them... Or to pull one out of a your nightstand drawer before you have sex/while making out.
Do they still do ribbed? lol been that long since I used one
Well tis about time you tried em
Id better just add while im here I dont use condoms because im married, do not have sex out of marriage and ive also had the op, so thats why I dont use em........before you all start shouting at me
http://www.thesite.org/magazine/sex_and_relationships/insisting_on_condoms.html
CB
"dont let the first time you have sex be the first time you put a condom on"
if put on wrongly they can split easily etc
Like zombie said, if youre ready to have sex then you should be comfortable with talking about it and using condoms.
if somebody refused to put one on with me theyd get a slap.
:eek2: Nuns are celibate, just like monks! You have sex yet you are a nun? :eek2:
:yes: she does, you know
Have you never read the letters of Aberlard and Héloise?
Oh, so THAT'S why she's a "norty" nun.
Nope, haven't read those letters. What are they about?
and she is *Norty Nun*
:eek2:
You disgrace me!
Abelard was a famous medieval philosopher/theologian and he had a stormy passionate affair with a 17 year old girl called Héloise. Her uncle wasn't very impressed (Abelard was meant to be her tutor, so he kind of abused his position) and it all got messy and Héloise went into a nunnery. I can't remember whether it was before or after she took the vail, but on a couple of occasions they shagged in the church on the pulpit. Even years after, she still thought of it and him, and wrote in a letter that when she was meant to be praying she was actually thinking of all the naughty times they had together and her heart still burnt with desire for him.....
But Abelard's probably best remembered for having been castrated by Héloise's Uncle's henchmen!
Oh! So Becky is TheSite's version of Heloise?
Who knows