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boyfriend meeting other girls
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My boyfriend has this online friend, who's a girl, and he's known her longer than he's known me... Except they've never met, and he wanted to meet her a while back, but I told him I didn't want him to, so they didn't meet up. However, they still chat. A lot. Which bugs me BAD. And now, he wants to meet with her, so he can try to set her up with a friend of his. However, then they would meet. And they would actually have to hang out a little bit to let her and his friend meet up. And then once they've met, they've met... And if it works out with his friend, they'll keep on seeing each other (without me), and if it doesn't work out, they've met, and then they have like this "free ticket" to meet up together as friends.
However, either way I'm sure they'll keep seeing each other, and they know a LOT about each other, and if they're going to hang out someway without me... I'm not gonna be too happy...
My boyfriend asked me if I'd be okay with him setting them up, and I said I didn't know. So he said he would just try to get them to meet...
However, either way I'm sure they'll keep seeing each other, and they know a LOT about each other, and if they're going to hang out someway without me... I'm not gonna be too happy...
My boyfriend asked me if I'd be okay with him setting them up, and I said I didn't know. So he said he would just try to get them to meet...
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If you try to stop your bf meeting this girl then hes going to get tired of not being able to meet new people and have new friends, hes going to think youre possessive and try to control him.
If you let them meet up then they get to be friends, your bf will be happy because he has a gf and a new mate.
If things turn sour between the two of you after he meets her then it just shows it wasnt meant to be.
Why don't you be fair to him and put trust in him by saying "Yeh actually you should try and set her up with your friend, lets make it a kinda double date, all 4 of us can go out". That way you are involved and get to meet her yourself. Just DON'T spend the night giving her the bitchy eye as you girls love to do!
I agree listen to Sir Cum's double date idea. Explain to your boyfriend you trust him but you would like to meet this girl anyway, and if that's ok with him. But still, there are going to be times he'll want it just to be him and her, and you have to get used to that - because he knows he's got a great girlfriend who trusts him completely to go home to
goin to meet a girl who he talks to alot on the internet. pah
double date or nuttin.
or jus talk alot to some guy on the internet, flip the script i'm sure he'll soon see things your way.