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Memory Wank Banks

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
I know most blokes do, but what i'm wondering is if girls have a memory wank bank. What I mean by that is when you masturbate, do you masturbate over porno films, porno pictures, fantasies, or whether you remember past sexual experiences and imagine you are back there whilst masturbating - that is my weapon of choice when it comes to wanking as I feel it turns me on more knowing it has actually happened, what do you girls think about / look at when you are wanking, and also guys??

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I just think about a certain CrazyRedEyes ;)




    just kidding!




    Im one for the fantasies... used to be porn, but im bored of it all now :rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I use porn, but i would sometimes use my imagination.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    usually porn :crazyeyes
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    someitmes think different scenarios up and stuff like that or watch porn but with me thats just to get me aroused really, cos ive got it down to a fine art...I can cum in 30 seconds! I know exactly what I like and I cum real quick anyway...itd be a bit shit if I was male!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by VinylVicky
    someitmes think different scenarios up and stuff like that or watch porn but with me thats just to get me aroused really, cos ive got it down to a fine art...I can cum in 30 seconds! I know exactly what I like and I cum real quick anyway...itd be a bit shit if I was male!

    30 seconds?? .. barely worth getting your kit off for that!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Multiple orgasms? :p

    I use my imagination/fantasies or erotica :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by VinylVicky
    someitmes think different scenarios up and stuff like that or watch porn but with me thats just to get me aroused really, cos ive got it down to a fine art...I can cum in 30 seconds! I know exactly what I like and I cum real quick anyway...itd be a bit shit if I was male!

    A quicky here and there then :naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by DiamondGeezer
    30 seconds?? .. barely worth getting your kit off for that!!

    ya just do it again dont ya...themore times I do it the stronger sensation i get
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by VinylVicky
    ya just do it again dont ya...themore times I do it the stronger sensation i get


    ... if i leave now I can be there just as you get off work!!! ....................... Nahhh feeling lazy today!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    reading erotica is definitely the best.
    fantasising's good too but in bed i'm usually too tired to make stuff up!
    and past experiences is a good one, but more than a couple of times and it just seems too samey... i guess i may just get bored easily?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by VinylVicky
    ya just do it again dont ya...themore times I do it the stronger sensation i get

    Woudl you ever tell a steady partner how you do it, so he could; or would it remain a personal secret?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Xila
    Woudl you ever tell a steady partner how you do it, so he could; or would it remain a personal secret?

    Oh tell him!!! I told my ex...we did it together...cos even though he knows its still entirely different and feels different when im on my own....its just 2 amazing ways of having really good fun! :naughty: would you tell a long time partner how you do it?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Lilangel
    fantasising's good too but in bed i'm usually too tired to make stuff up!

    Heh, that made me laugh. Too tired to use ya imagination? It's not difficult. :p Maybe I just have an overactive one. :/ Ah, tis handy.
    Or am I just totally confused about what you meant?

    And it depends. :/ Why is it that all my answers in here are 'Depends'? :/
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    mostly porn, but ive im hard and have no porn, i just think of good ol' times and away i go!:naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Porn helps alot!
    but its still good to think of the good times agreed!!:eek2:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Porn is good but the memory has its advantages :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you have alot alot of good memorys well then you shouldnt br jacking off!! You would be in the situation to call apon a past lady friend to help in the present at present!! :(
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    porn is the key!!
    but the imagination helps also.:naughty:

    *thinks to self about angelina jolie*thats the shit dont stop, keep going lara. :naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by lazybstard
    porn is the key!!
    but the imagination helps also.:naughty:

    *thinks to self about angelina jolie*thats the shit dont stop, keep going lara. :naughty:

    my point exactly well done !!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by lotey77
    my point exactly well done !!


    i can not improve on my point, basly porn is good and it is needed, oh yes it is needed.:lol::D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Uh huh, porn is a basic necessity of male human life. Although I do wank off more often using the memory bank, But maybe adding a few fantasies about what I would have liked or what I would have done and there consequences had that experience been happening to me at the time of the wank, instead of it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    On a similar topic, do any guys here wank whilst thinking about female friends? A close male (platonic) friend once told me that he'd wanked whilst thinking about me, and I was a bit taken aback!

    Is this common?

    Becks xx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by becksta
    A close male (platonic) friend once told me that he'd wanked whilst thinking about me, and I was a bit taken aback!

    *Is thinking how you'd bring that up in a conversation* :p

    Obviously you were shocked, but was it good or bad? I guess bad.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Mobily's Ghost
    *Is thinking how you'd bring that up in a conversation* :p

    Obviously you were shocked, but was it good or bad? I guess bad.

    Maybe I should have mentioned that we were both pretty wasted at the time, but it was still quite a bolt from the blue!

    At the time I was shocked, looking back...I'm still shocked. I suppose it's flattering in a way, but I'm always going to be very conscious of how I act around him now.

    Becks xx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by becksta
    On a similar topic, do any guys here wank whilst thinking about female friends?

    Is this common?
    Erm... yup! I think about female friends, girls at work, friends girlfriends. Oh, if only they knew what I've been thinking of them! :naughty:

    Back to the original question (even though it was aimed at girls)...
    I use a bit of porn, some erotica, imagination, past experiences, and fantasize about what I'd like to have done with ex'es.
    Oh, and probably most disturbing to you lot, imagining some of the things I'd like to do with some of you! :naughty::D

    Mr_Wobble ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Mr_Wobble
    Oh, and probably most disturbing to you lot, imagining some of the things I'd like to do with some of you! :naughty::D

    Mr_Wobble ;)

    Yes, that is very disturbing, seeing asthough we both appear to be male, but hey, i'm up for anything new! :naughty:

    And yes, we do jerk off whilst thinking about female friends, especially the quiet ones, you know they are always the dirty ones! :naughty::D:D:naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yea its normal to think over female friends, its in a males nature to think of sex all the time:naughty: ive thought over many female friends i have seen around and know.
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