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He Wants It Casual
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Hey, I have this guy mate, who I've been infatuated with for about 3 years...
Only recently has it become very clear that he wants to take our friendship to another level... sex.
He knows that he's not gonna get any from me, unless we were in a trusting, loving relationship...
He says he understands, but thinks that a casual snog would suffice lol.
I've been waiting for this moment to come, for 3 years and can't wait for the proper kiss... I'm just oh so nervous about how I kiss... I've only kissed 3 guys, and 2 of them were druken mistakes.
I really love this guy, but don't wanna look like an inexperienced idiot... help!
Ilora x
Only recently has it become very clear that he wants to take our friendship to another level... sex.
He knows that he's not gonna get any from me, unless we were in a trusting, loving relationship...
He says he understands, but thinks that a casual snog would suffice lol.
I've been waiting for this moment to come, for 3 years and can't wait for the proper kiss... I'm just oh so nervous about how I kiss... I've only kissed 3 guys, and 2 of them were druken mistakes.
I really love this guy, but don't wanna look like an inexperienced idiot... help!
Ilora x
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Its good that you are both being so open, and I hope you do get to the stage where you trust him enough to go all the way.
For the time being a snog is good.
But then i can see that thats why you refuse to sleep with him right? Believe me, i can relate, so i can understand where you're coming from. Just try not to let yourself get stuck in the dead end situation where you're tearing yourself up over this because he doesnt feel how you want him to.
Shameful and upsetting truth is, if hes not interested, theres not much more you can do except TRY to move on - and i use "TRY" in the loosest sense of the word cause we all know its not easy!
Best of luck, let us know how you get on!
Personally It sounds to me like you wouldn't be able to cope with the fact that one minute he might be snogging you and the next he might be shagging another girl.
beware.
:yes::yes::yes: AMEN TO THAT SISTER!
cus it can't jus stay at sex, there are things called feelings which will develop
and develop they will!