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Aahhhhhhhh
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Continuing on from 'My g/f wants me to be a bastard'
Today in college
I stayed away from her
she ended up texting me asking where i am and asking me to sit with her...
so I did...
bought her a drink...
then the insults started coming... only joking around and pushing and shoving ... jokingly....
then later she started to show off in front of her friends, trying to embarress me, saying she caught a disease of me, cos i recently got 'thrush' which i thiink was from her, and all these other insults...
lesson time came
went to that,
got out of it early, went to see her...
more insults....
she's really upsetting me, and i dont wanna say sorry cos im not in the wrong, i wanna tellher i love her! but she really hurts me, she is always hurting me by the things she does, she is used to being treated badly and not had anyone as nice as me!
she saw i was upset and tried saying 'i was equally as bad' but i dont think anything compares to saying out aloud i had a dieseease!
We did peck a kiss, and she went to buy somehting from the food machine and i just went! aint heard from her
soooo upset!
really annoyed!
I nearly crashed soo many times on teh way home,, i was driving like a complete dick!!!
ahhhhhhh
Today in college
I stayed away from her
she ended up texting me asking where i am and asking me to sit with her...
so I did...
bought her a drink...
then the insults started coming... only joking around and pushing and shoving ... jokingly....
then later she started to show off in front of her friends, trying to embarress me, saying she caught a disease of me, cos i recently got 'thrush' which i thiink was from her, and all these other insults...
lesson time came
went to that,
got out of it early, went to see her...
more insults....
she's really upsetting me, and i dont wanna say sorry cos im not in the wrong, i wanna tellher i love her! but she really hurts me, she is always hurting me by the things she does, she is used to being treated badly and not had anyone as nice as me!
she saw i was upset and tried saying 'i was equally as bad' but i dont think anything compares to saying out aloud i had a dieseease!
We did peck a kiss, and she went to buy somehting from the food machine and i just went! aint heard from her
soooo upset!
really annoyed!
I nearly crashed soo many times on teh way home,, i was driving like a complete dick!!!
ahhhhhhh
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by the way drive carefully
I feel to threaten her with 'Dumping her' but I am scared she'll go along with it!
We split up once before because i got too 'Clingy' and she realised she made a mistake and came back and I eventually said OK...
She told me she thinks she's fallen in love with me over the weekend...
I dont wanna let her get away with it, but I love her!
I just dunno what to do!
Fair enuff, she wants excitement by arguing and stuff, as I'm soo easy going i never argue back with her and let her have her way all the time, she dont really like that for osme reason
She sed I probabl haven't got it. but I was slightly itchy down there...lol
Talk to her, tell her she's being a bitch & you want it to stop.
She goes 'And!'
she dont care
she knows it...
she sed the other day, the only reason im horrible is so u fight back, but u never do!
It seems like she has no respect for you.
My other half annoyingly does not argue but I'd never resort to bitchiness like that in front of other people.
One can only assume, like she does, that you're happy to put up with her shite.
I was like, 'what the fuck do u think?'
and she was trying to get all close to make things better, but i was pushing her away!
ohhhhhhhhhh why is she like this!
Why can't she just be happy that she's got someone that respects her more than anything and will always be good to her!
It's messed up!
You'd think a girl wud kill to have a respectful man!
Why in the world would you think that?
Try being a bastard, see what happens.
I can't be arsed to type them all up!
But i was making the whole 'Disease' thing look majorly wrong!
Basically, i made out i was about to split with her, and she was like ' U can't be bothered with what' i said 'With you'
and she said, so is this it?
and she started putting XXX and the end....
so I think I scared her.... as she thought i was about to dump her... I did stand up for myself, and I hada tear in my eye....
but its not over.... I won't hear back from her for a while as she's now at work!
so im left pretty much hanging
what you gonna be, a lil boy bothered by your bitch makin comments
or..
you gonna be a man bout tings and sort out dat woman. fo' real
come on man, put yourself in the position of power and put her down so she can respect it. your clothes ain't gonna look good with foot prints on the back........
Here's a bit of info about Thrush courtesy of TheSite.org:
http://www.thesite.org/info/sex/sexual_health/thrush.html
And some even more reassuring info about it from Brook:
http://www.brook.org.uk/content/M2_4_10_thrush.asp
CB
No bitch would ever treat me like so without my blessing!
I'd leave that to the feminist to handle:p
she cant be in the wrong after the first time as you are allowing her to do it!