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hey all
i dont know if this should go in here, but oh well its here now! ok on friday night my mum and dad are going away for the night and my mate invited me to go down town with her (wasnt definate) so i said to my bf if i dont go out we could stay in and he could sleep round without my parents being there! then when i went to college it was made definate that were going down town friday. i told my bf and he said he was looking forward to spending the night round my house. even though it wasnt definate it all depended on whether i was going out or not.
now im really confused on what to do shall i go out with my mates its one of there birthdays but theres loads going so she wouldnt really miss me, or should i spend the night with my bf without my parents there. its really bugging me on what to do cus i aint had a proper night in with my bf for ages. so can someone help me please :banghead: thankz sorry its a bit long!
i dont know if this should go in here, but oh well its here now! ok on friday night my mum and dad are going away for the night and my mate invited me to go down town with her (wasnt definate) so i said to my bf if i dont go out we could stay in and he could sleep round without my parents being there! then when i went to college it was made definate that were going down town friday. i told my bf and he said he was looking forward to spending the night round my house. even though it wasnt definate it all depended on whether i was going out or not.
now im really confused on what to do shall i go out with my mates its one of there birthdays but theres loads going so she wouldnt really miss me, or should i spend the night with my bf without my parents there. its really bugging me on what to do cus i aint had a proper night in with my bf for ages. so can someone help me please :banghead: thankz sorry its a bit long!
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Why do you have to get pissed? Why not just have a few?
Can't you combine them? Like, take your boyfriend out on the town with you and then have him go home with you? Or you could go to your mate's thing for a couple of hours then leave early and get your boyfriend round by 10ish?
LSS
mobily's ghost my bf and my friends are important, i cant live without either of them.
i think i just need someone to tell me what to do as i cant decide for my self. its so annoying!
But it sounds as if you think seeing your mates is the right thing to do... don't stay in with your boyfriend if it's going to really piss them off or make you feel guilty. But I do think they should understand!
LSS
She's your friend! Surely you should know the answer to that more than anyone here?
I think it would be fine, but you should tell her sooner rather than later - don't drop her at the last minute!
well then surely contradictory to what you were saying earlier, your boyfriend is more important to you??? So there's your answer - you seem pretty sure in the above post - i dont think you need anyone else to tell you what to do.