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What's It Like?
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I've been reading people's thoughts on virginity, but there's one question still burning away...
What was it like for the first time?
I'm a virgin at 17, and i'm no rush whatsoever to have sex.... I'm just worried as to what it would be like when I finally do?
I know everyone is different, but does it hurt? and are you aware of how your body looks to your partner or anything? You see, thats THE thing I'm worried about... Gettin naked with someone...
So whats the real story?!
Blessed Be x
What was it like for the first time?
I'm a virgin at 17, and i'm no rush whatsoever to have sex.... I'm just worried as to what it would be like when I finally do?
I know everyone is different, but does it hurt? and are you aware of how your body looks to your partner or anything? You see, thats THE thing I'm worried about... Gettin naked with someone...
So whats the real story?!
Blessed Be x
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I admire your mature nature in not rushing into sex but rather waiting for that special person to arrive. Alas, I just wish that I had waited instead of having sex with that awful woman. But then 'yesterday is history,' so it does not really matter.
My first time was frustratingly poor, for I could not enter my penis into her vagina. This was not aided by her sheer lack of knowledge and her complete unwillingness to assist, despite sex being a two-way thing.
When you first get naked with someone it is a bit scary at first but it soon goes, I was nervous to strip off but I was with a girl who knew it was my first time and she understood how I felt so I was much more at ease. It's best to lose your virginity with someone who cares about you.
It doesn't have to hurt on your first time but it can, to minimise it you can have lots of foreplay beforehand, which should relax you and make you wet inside. Which should help it not hurt.
Hope that helps.
My first time was rubbish, drunk and numb. From a boys point of view. The first time you see a bird naked is great tho:D
You can’t describe her as being ugly, you are kinda taken back by the moment, I remember having a warm feeling in my inside *probably brought on by the alcohol*:p Just looking at her up and down *I was 16 at the time* She was a little bit older
I doubt you could think anything bad of the girl at all (unless she happened to be really enormously fat, like beached whale) then it might bring you back to earth.
But I was just happy to be seeing this fit girl naked, and I was able to just walk up to her and touch her!
Was a right buzz!
Yes. Blokes need a woman to help with everything
LOL. Well, it's always best to ask women for their help because, well, they will feel important.
She can help, sometimes it’s more sexier from a blokes point of view (and if we are feeling lazy) for her to guide it into the Love hole!
It makes you think that she wants it more, and plus it kinda cool:D .
Lets see if she needs a map for that eh!!
Stop worrying tho, there aren’t any rules that the girls or boys are meant to follow by, Just do what feels best for you.
We were pretty useless to start with and it took a while to get it sorted (we were both virgins), but it didn't matter because we were learning together. It hurt a little bit but not enough to make it a bad experience.
So long as you're with someone you trust it should all be fine.
I think thats the best way to have first time sex, get to know what turns each other on before you go all the way.
Good luck when it does happen!
still was crappy tho could feel him at all!
You?? 17?? I think not....Your birthdays after mine!!!
But I shall answer the question. My first time was a mistake. There wasnt even nakedness. However, after that I waited until I was with someone I loved and trusted, then at first it was a bit nerve wracking. But nakedness gets less of a problem. Also, soft lighting helps. That way, enough can be seen to be sexy, but not enough to make you feel lit up, and exposed.
It gets better each time, and sometimes the guys do need a little help. But what are us girlies here for??
Anyway, it's a lovely feeling when a girl's fingers tickle their way along your cock, pull, then guide you inside her lovely warmth and wetness. Damnit! Just thinking about that has given me a stiffy! :eek:
Mr_Wobble
My first time was only about a month ago. It was with my boyfriend and we'd been naked together before so I wasn't nervous or self-conscious, and it was fine it hurt like hell at first but then it was great, so exciting! Not perfect, but hey, practice makes perfect
I don't see why people want to wait for someone special before they have sex. You should experiment when you're young because it's the only time you can really do what you want.
About getting naked.... Nobody looks perfect when they're naked, don't be worried about it. A guy wouldn't be with you if he didn't find you attractive so don't go getting stressed about it
It's meant to be fun. That's the bottom line.