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she wont let me make her cum
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I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 months. We don't get much time alone together because both our parents are pains, but when we do get together, we make the most of it.
I have this 'thing' where i could be satisfied by giving her pleasure, my pleasure doesnt matter in my mind. The thing is, she wont let me make her cum. Every time i get her close, she stops me. I know im not doing anything wrong (she has convinced me of that), but i just wish i could make her cum sumtimes.
sorry, a bit of a rant i know! any suggestions on why she wont let me?
Bobaloss
I have this 'thing' where i could be satisfied by giving her pleasure, my pleasure doesnt matter in my mind. The thing is, she wont let me make her cum. Every time i get her close, she stops me. I know im not doing anything wrong (she has convinced me of that), but i just wish i could make her cum sumtimes.
sorry, a bit of a rant i know! any suggestions on why she wont let me?
Bobaloss
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Dunno if that helped at all, but hey!
It's just, when we have sex, i almost always cum and i hate not being able to return the favour so to speak.
I agree with Young and sexy - she's probably not ready for it yet. Chances are she hasnt completely lost her inhibitions, and doesnt feel completely comfortable coming in front of you yet. I know - I was a bit like this! :rolleyes: Thankfully over that now
Just give her time
I just like giving her pleasure, i could be content giving her pleasure 24/7. i have always been like that.
Thanks 4ur advice
Bobaloss
Maybe she's getting that feeling that she needs to pee as she gets close to orgasm, hence her reluctance to let you continue as she thinks she's going to wet herself? Just a thought.
Mr_Wobble
ok may be possible but i agree with the other two as well...she mustn't think shes ready. Or mayb she likes thing s the way they r and wants to keep them that way for a while.
i agree with Mr_Wobble.. i went though a stage when i would never let my bloke make me cum and we talked about it and discovered that was the reason why. You should talk about it with ur gf and then maybe ull find out the reason, and if u support her through whatever it may be then eventually she will feel more at ease and more comfortable with you making her cum.
FINALLY
not bein funny or nothin mate, but I've lost count of the number of times i get called "wrong" and "fucked up" because people think im some kinda wuss for not carin how good it is for me.
of course its gotta be good but if ya both try to make the other feel the best surely both people would come out of it feelin great.
sorry man i dont have any advice to help ya, but thanks for lettin me know im not the only one to aim solely on the girl.
im not a bloke so not speaking from personal experience here.. but thought id reassure u a lil bit more braidsta ur right u def arent the only guy who cares so dont worry. Granted, a proportion of the male population dont really care but there are some gems out there who really do want it to be just as good, if not, even better for the woman their with. As u have found out . i just wanted to say Well done! Guys like you may not get sum great macho rep off their bloke mates but who cares?! The only sex gods are the one who care about pleasing their partner.
i agree with the wobbling penguin. heh i didnt think id ever say that
try and talk her into it as quickly and efficiently as possible
i'm sure you'll only have to talk her into it the once
Aww that sounds so sad