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Y does it hurts her?
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every time i have sex wiv my g/f she complains it hurts and i have to stop she was a virgin when we met and so far we do it almost everyday but always with her saying it hurts i asked her y and she said she doesnt know anyone got any clues???:rolleyes:
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Have a bit more foreplay- might help.
Two other factors: She may be nervous and cant relax fully, she may still be "being broken in" so to speak so it should just go away itself.
Also, if its around the time of her period the wall sof the vagina will be down lower, making it painful at times!
Really? I've never heard that before...
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okeit, I'd say she's probably still healing from the first time - how long ago was it?
If not, it's probably a case of not enough foreplay - meaning less natural lubrication so it could tear her skin and be quite painful...
Or maybe she should speak to a doctor... *calls for help from Susie or Karla or someone more knowledgeable than me...*
_Nelly_
That's what I would've said.
If you're doing it everyday she hasn't had a chance to heal. Do some other stuff for a couple of days - concentrate on her so she relaxed in a sexual situation with you, then, after a couple of days, try intercourse again.
wen i lost my v's it really hurt first tym... not mcuh u can do about that really, maybe u just havnt broken her in properly, i mean if u always end up havin to stop then urnot gonna be able to work past the painful bit. i agree with the general advice tho, try forplay coz that myt loosen her up. also make sure shes actually ok with wot ur doin, coz she could just be uncomfortable with havin sex and be usin the pain as an excuse. talk to her about it and ask her wot she wants, if she wants to try forplay and lube and stuff then go for it..... ask her wot she thinks is best for the relationship.