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ok me and my mate were speaking to take and we got talking about vibrators and we come up with a question that we would like to know this answer. its for the guys, but gurls can answer aswell! but guys do vibrators make you feel inadequate? does it make you feel as if your not good enough? or do you like them?
thankz for everyone who replies!
thankz for everyone who replies!
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Nah man,
Vibrators are class!
They shouldn't make a guy feel inadequate.
I'd love to buy one for my GF but I'm too shy to go into a shop and get one. Do many girls use em?
It maybe fast, but It will never feel as good as my hot tongue.
I see it as a tag team buddy, let *it* do all the work and I'll lap up the juices!:D
well i use mine inside me anyway guaranteed orgasm everytime especially when i got a bloke fukin me with 1 corrrrr
although i do use it 4 clit stimulation when im takin it doggy then its good 2 hold it up against ur clit and wait 4 the pussy juices 2 start flowin, and believe me they will coz this is good
but 2 answer the question yes most blokes i been with do have a phobia of vibrators lol i mean wots all that about
2 the girls out there that aint got 1 i say try em u wont regret it and 2 the blokes i say join in other wise u missin out big time on pussy juices
Wuss!
My boyf bought me mine (after many many hints)
I think the "weirdo-freak-pervert" stigma that has been associated with vibrators and other sex toys is finally on the downturn. It is being recognised that they can be a fun part of a sex life. So just take a deep breath, walk into a shop, have a look around and buy something for your g/f (and you of course!). She'll love you for it.
And there's no need to be shy. I remember my Grandad telling my how embarresing it was to have to buy condoms from the local chemist. "You young 'uns don't know how lucky you are. Johnnies are available everywhere now. The supermarket, the pub, etc...."
The same goes for sex toys. You no longer have to goto a seedy shop but places like Ann Summers!! Failing that use the thing that's sat right in front of you :eek:
I mean your PC you filthy animals :rolleyes: There are plenty of websites out there to buy your pleasure from. Try here for a start. Remember you have to be over 18
Question for the girls - Would you like it if your BF had a rubber 'Pulsating Pussy' that they used on themselves all the time?
I guess they're used cos i've seen plenty advertised and I have been quite tempted to buy one for myself (to give my wrist a rest )
I was trying to kinda prove a point about it been double standards as I could never really see a girl joining in with a lad using a pulsating pussy.
Although I don't like the idea of a 'pulsating pussy'. Are you going to accuse me of double standards now?
And I would be reluctant to go into a shop to buy any kind of sex toy. Would be reluctant to go into a shop just to buy condoms...
Mr_Wobble
My god, a bloke *asking* his girlfriend something? Whatever is the world coming too! And however would she have time to answer whilst making dinner and cleaning?
:crazyeyes
hehe its very unlikely, lads dont seem to be able to ask anything.
whats there to be shy about?
Mr_Wobble
Mr_Wobble
thats why alot of people have them
My girlfriend and I have been having sex for about a year and a half now, but she's never cum.So, after a bit of mixed up hints and stuff, I finally plucked up the courage to buy her 2, (the first one was just too big, and the second one was Rampant Rabbit thing from AS). And this thing can make her cum in like 2 minutes (well, she's not totally came yet because she's still quite scared, but it's managed to get a better reaction from her than I ever have...) And basically I am jealous of it because it can make her feel amazing while I can't... I do turn her on and she loves making love to me, but I feel really jealous of RR. And I'm worried that she'll prefer that over me, and I'll be made redundant (which she assures me won't happen, but I'm not too sure...) It's now beginning to put a big rift between us, cause I want to make her come, not some piece of rubber... But on the other hand it is such a turn on watching her use it. I don't know how to feel!!!
Btw, good point on the pulsating pussys, would women feel as comfortable watching men use one of them?
(P.s. This'll probably be deleteed, cause I don't think it's right to talk about your current sex life in a long term relationshoip, but I'm desperate!!!)
i very rarely cum thro sex but i can cum thro bein fingered and bein licked out but as much as i luv sex i wouldnt giv up my vibrator ever.
its gud that u can share vibrators with each other most of the blokes i been with run a mile when i ask em bout usin it .
i remember an x of mine said 2 me once do u hav better orgasms from ur vibrator and i said no because its a completey different experience. sex is all about bein intimate with sum1 u luv, care about or fancy.sex with a vibrator is purely about cumin.
dont let it get 2 u im sure she'll never make u redundant in favour of her vibrator just join in with it but stop b4 shes about 2 cum from it and finish her off with ur tounge
I dunno, maybe it's just the cynic in me, but do women really mean that? Sorry if that offends!