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i have recently started seeing this gorgeous guy and i really feel ready to sleep with him , and i really would like to. we have known each other for a bout a yr and he really likes me. the only problem is that i really want to but i am very nervous and worried of what he will think? (about my body i mean)
ne surgestions as to how i could cool my nerves maybe??
cheers xxxxx
ne surgestions as to how i could cool my nerves maybe??
cheers xxxxx
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how come every girl gets self concious about these things. listen, my philosiphy on my girlfriend is this (i cant speak for all males) - i would like to do everything with her, so, instead of me pushing, we can go by her clock, we do things when she is ready, then its best.
i suppose you might be embarresed to let him know. why dont you tell him in a letter, or over msn. its far easier.
just relax and try not 2 worry bout it 2 much
There's far more better things to do than point and laugh anyway. So engage him in some of them.
If you're really nervous just turn the light out.
maybe y dont u trim down ur pubes or a bit or summin if it'll make u feel better or go and have a bikini wax, but trust me ur havin these fears now but when u actually face em and get down 2 it it wont b on ur mind coz ull b havin 2 much fun.
just relax ull b fine
hope this is sum help 2 u
Why what's wrong with them? I assure you that most men will be more interested in licking than looking.
What I done was try not to think about it too much. Just remember it's normal to have doubts about yourself.... No one is perfect, remember that.
He's still with you because 'he wants to be with you'
Best thing is, try not to plan anything.
When the moment is right, follow your feelings.
Decide.
Do it.