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unwanted attentions
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What's the best way to get rid of unwanted attention...?? I have a boyf who is totally wonderful and i love him to bits, this other guy knows that but still keeps trying to persuade me to leave my boyf, just so i can sleep with him.... I mean, ye hes a good mate, n ye i used to fancy him, but not any more! He's only a mate though, nothing more, but how can i make him understand that??ive tried talking to him myself, ive got his best mate to talk to him to, ive tried ignoring him, ive tried everything i can think of!!So now ive kinda run out of idea, i was wondering if any of u can help me??guys or gals, whichever! HELP!! plz?? before i go crazy, i literally feel like ---> :banghead:
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:crazyeyes
Or just go away.
It probably helps if you're more direct than subtle.
Just laugh, in his face and say 'Hunny, I aint interested - so get over it' etc
'Good Luck'
Is your bloke bothered by all this attention? If not then just pretend he doesnt exist, My ex has been hassling me for just over 6 months now, and finally hes got the picture, i ignore his calls, ignore his txts, ignore him when he comes round my house, just pretend he's not there, and certainly dont let him know that his hassling bothers you, because he'll just do it more and more.