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Hi guys i'm 14 yrs old and i went on a school trip to paris recently and me and my mate had to share a bed and we were both jakin' off to some porn and we kinda jacked eachother off and i was just wondering is that okay or does it mean i am gay??? PLZ REPLY I NEED AN ANSWER!!!
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sounds like a laugh man, gotta try everything once! :eek2:
Probably not.
Probably not okay - You would both get onto the child protection register if the law found out; if your peer group found out they would undoubtedly make things unpleasant.
Probably not gay - I'm guessing the pR0n was typical suggestive/submissive young woment wearing not a lot, and the pleasure you obtained from the jerking off was that it was someone else doing it, not a man doing it.
If, on the othe hand, you enjoyed the feel of the other lads cock in your hand, and were excited by how he was reacting to your services - well that does sound a bit gay
No, it doesn't mean you're gay. It was only a wank after all, nothing more. Don't feel guilty about it (which you shouldn't do anyway even if you are gay).
i got things to doooo never be afriad to experiment just dont expect people to except u. well except us
You say you 'kinda' jacked each other off? What are you rrying to mean here? you did it but you're ashamed about it, or you did something different from jacking off or what?
Seriously though, don't worry about it. Sex play between people of the same sex is very normal and it doesn't mean you fancy people of the same sex, it can just happen when there aren't any girls around. If you were gay you'd know about it.
Youlll find alot of lads do this, but theyll never admit it!!
Um i'd disagree with that.
thanks though guys it answered my question and now i know i am not someone who tosses off their mates now and then.
CHEERS!!!
Yeah it is gay if you keep doing it !!
Once is allowed as an accident !!
More is G A Y !!!
Very mature! You've obviously wanked more than once so that makes you a WANKER!!!
All4u, if you do it as a form of masturbation without any emotional feeling towards him but are just going through the actions 'cos it feels nice to have someone elses hand on your cock, then you are not gay - not matter how many times you do it.
If you have emotional feelings for him, you may be gay BUT you may also be just a little confused at this stage of your life. You'll probably only know for sure when you reach 17 or 18 if girls really don't turn you on ... and being gay is nothing to worry about anyway.
Maybe not gay, but possibly bisexual?
And he was only expressing his opinion, so there's no need to insult anyone. you couldve expressed your opinion in a million better ways.
I'm a girl btw,so think about that before you try and attack me too.
Hello Ghost Hunter Killa (or whatever you were called). Still a twat I see :rolleyes:
Teagen, I think your reply sucked. Didn't appreciate being called a wanker as it suggests that I am a monogamist when in fact I enjoy many female partners also.
As for your theory about anal sex hmmmm you didn't think about the physics of it too much did you.
Samuti, if you want to agree with teagen go ahead i won't lose sleep, but let it be because his argument is valid and not because mine offended you.
God its so hard to not flame the little T monster !!!!!
Resist resist, I feel like a pot noodle advert !!!!
and yeah, i agreed with him coz of his argument, not because of anything you said.
Doh repost flame repost flame !!!
So if you had little brother and he and his male friend wanked each other off watching porn you would think hey its cool your not weird. I mean I heard stories when i was in school about scouts who play soggy biscuit.
Basically they stood around masturbating (themselves) last one to cum on biscuit had to eat it !!!! euuuggghhhh
Now as confused as kids can be, no one is that confused !!!
I always got wood with female teachers !!!!!
blah blah anyway back to work for me !!!! Chillax and relax but fella's keep your mitts off my candy stick !!! I'm out peace !!
My reply sucked? And your origonal reply was balanced and informative? I think the term WANKER sums you up pretty well. This guy was asking for advice and your reply was just completely unhelpful. Prisoners, for example, indulge in same-sex activities but they leave prison without being gay. So, why should he be gay if he doesn't bond in a mentally sexual way with men? He's just indulging in a higher form of masturbation. Harmless!
Physics? Or do you mean BIOLOGY? Duh! Wanker!
Flame me as much as you like, Wanker. I can just choose to ignore you.
I do have a little brother and I would be concerned for him BUT I wouldn't fuck his head up by implying he was gay when at that age he probably isn't.
So, what's your excuse then?
Who you trying to convince, WANKER? We only have your word for it. And who says that he doesn't get woodys with female teachers either?
Yeah, fuck off!
Yawn and I was having such a bad day !
All chirpy now !
What on the top bunk instead of bottom ?
Anal sex in prison is acceptable straight behaviour ????
WHAT ???????
*Holds head high and thanks a higher being (hopefully not masturbating) that for every ass clown there is a bucket for him to shit into* - Demon Hunters Final Thought !!!
Let's hope it is your final thought - you seem to have too much trouble thinking.
Eh no they dont! Ever!
I would say I have an open mind in terms of sexuality. But giving each other bj's crosses way over that line! If you want to feel someone elses hand wanking you off get a gf or sit on yur hand till it goes dead and try that
And yes, well done you're 100% heterosexual, gay hating idiot.
I thought that was supposed to be DMX now ?????
I'm not a homophobe, but I can't understand how people can think one guy wanking another off is anything other then at least homoerotic?(not to me) If not full blown homosexual behaviour.
Can I take it then Silverberg that you are a person who has experimented with stuff like this?
If you read my other posts you'll see I can change my opinion if people use good arguments. Telling me that prisoners fucking each other isn't gay either isn't gonna change my mind. I doubt you read this full thread because you seem not well informed and probably read one post and said "he hates my kind".
Can I ask? Do you think when one man takes another up the ass with consent that its still not Gay, So long as neither loves the other and have thoughts of women in their heads ????
I do, why.... there eyes where open when they slapped it in, still open when there wiping the shit off !!!!
(Yes Teagan i'm ignoring you ?!!)
BTW i've spoken to that DMX dude before, i've been told he was this GFK dude, he seems alright to me. I think the pair of you should pm each other coz you seem to have alot in common
Silverberg, I'm PMing DMX after this just to tell him what you said, I think its very cowardly posting a flame about a guy on a thread he's not subscribed on.
You're a tad thick, aren't you? The point that everyone else seems to understand except you is that just because through hormones/horniness and experimentation, all4u indulged in a homosexual act BUT it does not make him a homosexual.
It's usually the guys like you who protest so much that have something to hide ...
Once again, thicko, you don't seem to read properly. I never said that gay sex between prisoners was not gay-orientated - but it doesn't make them homosexual. Read the fucking dictionary, why don't you? A homosexual is one who has an ATTRACTION to the same sex. Prisoners do it as a form of sexual release - NOT because they FANCY men. Likewise, with all4u, he had a gay-orientated sexual encounter but it does NOT make him gay.
Only because you're too thick to understand something that no one else seems to have a problem with. You must be dead proud using the word "homosexual" - such a long word!!!
Ooooh! Tell tales why don't you?!