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arrrrrgggghhhhhh!!!!!!!
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Just been forced into going out with a new guy at work. he is a really cool bloke and apparently he really likes me. problem is im still in love with my ex and im scared about starting a new relationship especially when all i want to do is have a laugh with my mates right now. im not one of these people who lets people down straight away and i find it hard dumping boys. what im going to do is give a week and see what he is like if not then i dont know what?
any advice????? :banghead:
any advice????? :banghead:
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It's hardly fair on him or you if it's not what you want.
Then I end up in a mess because I don't like being rude and saying no
You're on the right path by giving it a week. But as Deeeby says, it aint really fair on you.
Yeah, it'd be brilliant if I wasn't so fucked over by everything. They mean well
tell him that you are currently inbetween relationships and you don't want any commitment at the moment. that way you are giving him hope without giving him expectations that in the future you will go out with, and he will be able to get over you. this happened to me but then the person i fancied suddenly went weird and started saying i was stalking her and i just couldn't be bothered so i moved on in like a day. but i suppose it was for the best because i fancied someone else all along, and i thought it were bad, but it turned out to be so good
We know :rolleyes:
That's what I say.
There's no point in lying to urself, and to him if you know deep down that ur not sure about letting go of your ex.
I mean, i am still in love with my ex and wouldnt dream of goin out with anyone no matter who they set me up with, so if you're not 100% sure on it, don't do it. You'll only hurt the guy.
SweetLeaf X