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OK Im seeing this girl and we are very close and her mum and dad are going on hols soon and leaving her at home on her own. I have been told if I go near the house that her dad will kill me. (Not sure if he was joking). Now this girl wants me to go her house when her parents have gone. What should I do? Id like to go but I dont fancy crossing her dad.
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I'm sure the reward is well worth it!:D
If I were you, I'd probably try to find a compromise, like taking her out instead (especially if there's no parents at home to worry about what time she comes back home...). That way you don't actually defy him, but neither do you seem to be 'wimping out' if that's what she's upto.
It could be that she is actually more into you defying her dad than she is into the relationship itself, so be careful you're not stepping into a potential mine-field of family power-struggles.