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Everyone was right!
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I have just split up with my boyfriend of 16 months! everyone told me to stay away last month i didnt listen and now im so upset no one to talk to for a week! (half term)
I hurt so much he was so nasty for the last months couldnt bear to touch me, look at me or talk to me and i put up with it because i loved him!
Im so thick!
I hurt so much he was so nasty for the last months couldnt bear to touch me, look at me or talk to me and i put up with it because i loved him!
Im so thick!
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he was lovely to me at one time! He changed now i cant cope!
You will get over it mate. These things take time but he's just one bloke. There's many more fish in the sea so to speak. Just learn from your mistakes and you'll come out of this a better person. Keep your chin up and remember that he wasn't worth you if thats all he wanted.
Keep smiling.
I put up with a lot of shit because I was loved my boyfriend that much.
But you're not thick.
Take care, you.
oooh and if you want to ramble on msn then my email thing is daisychainthing@hotmail.com
I totally agree! At least you can see what he wanted and what he was like. Thats just one step to forgetting about him. It might take a while, but remember as one door closes another one opens! Hope ur ok x x x x
I know it wont help you out now but you really are better off without him.
Try and meet up with friends and do stuff. anything! Just try not to be alone right now because that's when it hurt more!
When you next meet a boy you like take it slow and don't get so attached! You need to be able to cope on your own first before you get attached to any more bf's.
I agree although its gonna be difficult trusting anyone else now!
He didnt deserve you, and you didn't deserve to be treated like that. I'm sure you will meet someone much nicer who actually acts like they care about you.
I know it will be hard at first but i jope you realise it will be better in the long run Go out with your friends and try to have a good time, just don't waste anymore time on him.
I MEAN IT!
We've all been with horrible blokes, I know I've had my fair share of guys who are nice when they want that certain something and then act the complete opposite when they've got it. :rolleyes: You will find someone nice soon enough though
but if you properly like this guy, the only way to get over Gary is just take things slow, and dont hold on to him. Let steam off, but be aware of your feelings, you shouldnt lie to your new boyfriend, but dont lie to yourself, make sure you are over him before you move on.