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Why is it always about sex?
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Nearly every guy i meet is just after one thing... sex! Now, dont get me wrong, i like sex, who doesnt, but it would be nice to find a guy who takes me for me and isnt just interested in sex
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Maybe go for someone older and more settled. That's all I can think to tell you.
Tut :rolleyes:
Thats why you women have one very important power and one that makes men cringe when you wield it. It's called the power of the word "NO". Please use it sparingly!
I just hate that it's normal for men and when a woman does the same she's called a bitch soon :rolleyes:
Just learn to deal with it. It's not hard...well, it might be at some point. A grab and a twist and you'll never hear from them again.
i know im not ready for it. i just want somebody i can love, and who loves me in return. someone i can talk to, and have fun with.
frankly i dont care if i never have sex.
I would want sex. If the experiences ive had with sex weren't as bad as they have been. Someone show me good sex and then i'll want it.
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Damnfino why this is, though I suspect it has more to do with internal female politics than anything else.
Malibu Babe, you're looking for love, only thing I can say is get used to it, a lot of us are........
Another thing when you look out side of clubs etc men tend to look at you fora relationship, you can usually tell by the man you pick up whether they are a relationship man or just out for sex (not all men are like this). Women are just as bad as men believe me. I know many women who are jsut out to pick up men for one night stands its all we talk about at sixth form, it is rare to find many people in long term relationship because usually at the age between 16 and 24 people just want fun. You have to look for those that dont and yes it does take work.
Surely you must by now be able to tell the bad apples from the good ones, and if in doubt make them wait, you will soon see the nice blokes from the bad ones.
It make me laugh you women know this information yet you still end up sleeping with the blokes that just want you for sex then bugger off! And then you moan about being used. It’s a strange Old World
Lol, we I'm sure you could find lot's of blokes that would take you for you. It’s not that hard!
Honestly you girl do sometime paint a nasty picture of us men, You do seem to think men can't love or something and we are only after sex!