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Help! 2girls, dilemma.
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I am, in a tricky situation at the moment. Last year at Reading festival, I got with a girl who's my mate's cousin.I saw her again around christmas time and we got together again. The chemistry between us is amazing. She got my number last week and we've started texting each other, and things look pretty good for Reading festival this weekend.
All's well, but today I asked a really nice girl (Kerry)at work out for a drink, and she said yes. I'm going out with her tomorrow night, the only problem with her is that she is 16. I'm 18, I dunno if the age gap is too much.
The main problem is that if I get serious with the girl at work, then will I have cheated on her while we are technically going out??
And will I be cheating on the girl from Reading if I start seeing the girl from work?
I doubt anything serious will happen 2moro with the girl from work, so could I get out of the cheating dilemma by avoiding anything too deep until after the festival?
Please help, I'm in a right muddle yet again.
All's well, but today I asked a really nice girl (Kerry)at work out for a drink, and she said yes. I'm going out with her tomorrow night, the only problem with her is that she is 16. I'm 18, I dunno if the age gap is too much.
The main problem is that if I get serious with the girl at work, then will I have cheated on her while we are technically going out??
And will I be cheating on the girl from Reading if I start seeing the girl from work?
I doubt anything serious will happen 2moro with the girl from work, so could I get out of the cheating dilemma by avoiding anything too deep until after the festival?
Please help, I'm in a right muddle yet again.
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And vice versa, if you liked girl from work so much you wouldn't even contemplate having a shag-a-thon with said Reading girl. :rolleyes:
This is called 'having your cake and eating it' and as Lacy pointed out, is cheating.
However, if you're just going out for a drink with girl from work and nothing at all happens, then I suppose it might be ok to have said weekend with girl at Reading, as long as after that you make up your mind which one you want and stop stringing them both along.
Also, hope girl from work looks old enough to drink as it would be mighty embarrassing if they don't serve you alcohol when you're out with her cos she's too young, lol!
The age thing shouldn't matter, it isn't too big. She'll be finished school by now I assume if she's 16 so I wouldn't worry about it.
Go for it, try ya luck with both!
hmmmm :rolleyes:
You can "Hmmmmm" all you like and Roll your little eyes at me but a blokes got to at least try his luck with both girls to see with one he likes more
:rolleyes: As much as i love ya... :rolleyes:
I stand by what I said. I think beer4breakfast should at least date both girls for a while, be honest with them if he likes (unwise) but the only way the guy will see witch girl he gets on with better.
Couldnt he just see them one at a time though?
He could do, but where the fun in that;)
eye's are both hurting
Too much porn that
In my mind, it's absolutely not right. But then, what will that matter?