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Hi, dont know if you can help me but here it goes. Last night I attempted sex for the first time. It was basically impossible to penetrate me, anyway, it finally happened but (sorry this is sounding crude) he only got in a little way and I had to tell him to stop becasue it was pain like ive never felt before, and I couldn't carry on. I started to bleed almost immeadiatly (sp?), and it wasnt just a little bit, there was a lot and this carried on for most of the night. Im am still bleeding a little bit now. Im pretty sure this isnt normal. Im not in pain at the moment, but even though I suspected there would be blood I didnt think it would be anything like this. Im worried. Any thoughts?
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Ok, probably a really dumb suggestion....sorry.
And I am sorry that your first time was cuah a bad experience for you. It gets better, trust me.
How aroused were you, because if you were not aroused fully when he attempted to penetrate you the vagina walls wont have been fully relaxed making the opening tighter. Therefore he could have ripped the vaginal walls slightly, like what often happens when anal sex is attempted for the first time.
See a doctor if you are worried, and try and have as much foreplay as possible. Only attempt penetration when you cant resist it any longer, and a way to feel more relaxed is to not make penetration the be-all and end-all of sex. The tongue is the strongest muscle in the body for a reason;)
Hi that happeed to me, it was easy to penetrate me but it hurt like hell and there was alot of blood. The best thing to do is just use sanitary protection until the belleding stops. It should subside soon. As with angelbabe said the second time shouldn't hurt at all. It didn't with me either. Good luck hunni. Sorry you had to experience the pain of it.
It gets a better- try having a few drinks/a lot of foreplay if you have problems getting relaxed. Even better, have a few hits of something!
Sorry your first time wasn't so good! Enjoy the next time!
Lubrication is a great idea (I get up to lots with it ) but make sure it's water-based if you're wearing a condom. If not, there's no point in wearing the condom.
*End of serious advice*