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  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 484 Listening Ear

    I have been told to get help but I haven’t got the help and I’m still the same as I was when we broke up

  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 484 Listening Ear

    why is no one listening to me

  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,604 An Original Mixlorian

    we’re listening to you. we’re giving you options to get help as well.

    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 484 Listening Ear

    no one is listening thought no one

  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,604 An Original Mixlorian

    we are listening. we’re doing our best to support you..

    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 484 Listening Ear

    like I’m scared everyday and I all I get told is to distract myself

  • CallumCallum Community Manager Posts: 269 The Mix Regular

    Hey @LolaPumpkin13 I appreciate how difficult this must be for you to work through, especially when nothing seems to work. How are you feeling today I wonder?

  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 484 Listening Ear

    not really great just feeling sick panic attacks just not really sure what to do

  • CallumCallum Community Manager Posts: 269 The Mix Regular

    @LolaPumpkin13 It can be so frustrating not knowing what to do when you're dealing with this, feeling sick and having panic attacks. I'm just wondering what would help the most from us so that you can get through this?

  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 484 Listening Ear

    honestly im not sure I’ve tried shout mind Kelly’s heroes take back your mind but I don’t think I’m going to get better

  • Blue_lilyBlue_lily Posts: 89 Budding Regular

    Hi @LolaPumpkin13

    How are you feeling today?

    I hear how you think you're not going to get better, this must be quite a daunting thought to process.

    Firstly you've taken such a great step with reaching out for that help. I know it must be quite discouraging feeling like its not getting better, but sometimes it takes some time to find what works best for us. That doesn't mean that the right help for you isn't out there, it might just take a bit of time to find it 😊.

    I wonder if any of these helplines helped you or helped reduce the panic attacks? There is no pressure to share if you don't want to.

    💙

  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 484 Listening Ear

    hey blue lily honestly I’ve tried all the helplines I’m in counselling but i have to get a new counsellor which is getting sorted as my counsellor has just lost a family member but I’m just looking for a helpline that gives me advice not just telling me to distract myself

  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 484 Listening Ear

    I’m just starting not to care anymore because he doesn’t care anymore

  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 484 Listening Ear

    I just need a mental health helpline that gives advices not just listening

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