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Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? (Triggering Stuff Edition) w/c 23.02.26
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Thank you @Sabah , Wrong thread, just a visitor of a neighbour we have previously had issues with a few years ago, their visitor hit a famliy members car and started getting aggressive apparently with family over it when it was parked. Not really my issue but i was just overthinking it, it was just i thought at some point we could squash the beef, Wrong thread but this part might be triggering, a few years ago they made death threats they said theyll use weapons , was hoping things calmed down and we could squash the beef somehow coz I dont like grudges, it seems it been re lit now, thank you though Sabah
Thank you toffuna101
@River that does sound controlling, I can see how upsetting that is for you. It must feel so constricting having someone else tell you who you can or can't speak to, and completely unreasonable too. I'm wondering if you have spoken to your gf or anyone else around you about what is happening with this particular someone? What is stopping you from putting boundaries with this person?
@Redemption that sounds terrifying. Death threats are not normal at all. How are you and your family feeling / doing? Do you feel like any of you are in any danger?
@Sabah i don’t know how to set boundaries especially with someone much older than me :/
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@Sabah thank you, the death threats were back a few years ago, the recent one was way less intense, still heated but just like i was overthinking it a bit, tbh it's nkt even my issue it's between my family members, not even my car but yh just hearing about it, I was overthinking a bit. About the death threats back then, they might have shocked me was upsetting a little but they didn't scare us because 1 point is , I'm not a violent person at all or anything but atleast if you are going to threaten someone threaten to do it without weapons, hiding behind weapons sounds cowardly. Its not tough or anything to threaten to use weapons. Anyway that aside I just thought somehow we'd squash the beef and make up at some point which seems more unlikely now, i just hate grudges really. It would ne nice to just get on again, atleast be on good terms.
@River I hear you, setting boundaries can be a terrifying to begin with but I imagine that with someone older it can feel even more intimidating. I can try and find a resource on boundary setting if you'd like. Can I ask, who is this person to you? And do you feel safe?
@Sabah yeah I’m safe and it’s a bit complicated on who it is. It’s someone online but yeah I’m safe anyway
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@Redemption even if it doesn't involve you directly, it's completely understandable why it would still upset you deeply. Conflict can incredibly uncomfortable, especially when it has gotten heated in the past. It makes sense why this might make you feel anxious (have I got that right?)
Yh thats right @Sabah
in tears again :/
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