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if I’m manipitive controlling emotional abusive vile possevie ac cheat then so be it I’m done
We know how difficult this must be for you @LolaPumpkin13, breakups are never easy to go through. How might you feel about trying the link that @Verity shared the other day? This is the link:
https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/self-help/guides-tools-and-activities/breathing-exercises-for-stress/is there any other mental health chat lines that can help 24/7 cause I can’t speak to shout
yeah i shared this website before but it’s a webchat mh charity open until 10pm tonight.
https://www.takebackyourminduk.org
thank you so much
I really do give up I just wake up everyday like what is the point I’ve had no help and I’m tired
it is just getting quieter and quieter
Hey @LolaPumpkin13 I can hear you are really struggling right now, feeling like there is no point or help must be scary, we're here to support you. I'm wondering if you've had a change to read our relationship thread? it could be really helpful as you are struggling with a breakup right now.
no I haven’t I’m having a hard time finding it
Hi @LolaPumpkin13 , no worry at all, I'll share the link to the Boards section here all about Relationships: https://community.themix.org.uk/categories/sex-relationships.
It might be that other young people have posted threads there that you can relate to.
You're doing so well to continue opening up and talking about this.
i dont think i can take much more of this pain
Hey @LolaPumpkin13 I wondered if you interested in joining our support thread today? this would be a great place to discuss what you are going through, do you think this is something you would be interested in? you can join here: https://community.themix.org.uk/discussion/3608479/saturday-support-thread-21-02-2026/p1?new=1
I’m not feeling sure it is not going to change anything the pain isn’t going to go away
I know how frustrating this must be for you, with the pain feeling like it's not going to go away @LolaPumpkin13. I'm curious, did you manage to take a look at this https://www.takebackyourminduk.org/ that @eylah sent the other day?
I did but there was always some problems
I don’t think I will able to move on
Hey @LolaPumpkin13 how are you feeling today, what are you most struggling with?
I’m not really doing ok no I haven’t been for nearly a year I’m still struggling with all of it I’m suicidal most of the time I’m still in the same place that I was when we broke up
Hey @LolaPumpkin13 you mentioned you had problems accessing https://community.themix.org.uk/home/leaving?allowTrusted=1&target=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.takebackyourminduk.org%2F , would you mind sharing what those problems are? We can help you out with accessing the resource.
uhh just connection problems I’m also having thoughts tha my ex hit me which he never did but it is just draining and exhausting all the time
@LolaPumpkin13 Those thoughts must be so exhausting and draining, I'm wondering if you know where these thoughts may have come from?
Connection problems can be difficult. Have you managed to try the website since, as it might have been a problem their end rather than yours?
I’ve but it is still playing up and it started when I moved in the flat tbh I’m really fed up of explaining myself over again
I’ve been like this for nearly a year conastly sad I don’t have any good days anymore and I’m done I’ve been suicidal on and off for months I just want to get better
I don’t think I can carry on tbh
Hi @LolaPumpkin13 I'm wondering if you've tried clearing your browser cookies before clicking on the link, or perhaps trying a different browser? This is a direct link to get chatting with them (click here) and this is their link for other forms of contact for them (click here). Please do let us know if those links work, it may take a couple of seconds to load.
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Can I ask, what are you already doing to help manage these thoughts or to help yourself move on from your break up? Is there anything you haven't tried that you would like to try?
ok I will do that later and nothing yet until I know what this thoughts mean I’m doing it all by myself and I’m tired
and my best friend is helping me move in but obviously it takes time