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if I’m manipitive controlling emotional abusive vile possevie ac cheat then so be it I’m done
We know how difficult this must be for you @LolaPumpkin13, breakups are never easy to go through. How might you feel about trying the link that @Verity shared the other day? This is the link:
https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/self-help/guides-tools-and-activities/breathing-exercises-for-stress/is there any other mental health chat lines that can help 24/7 cause I can’t speak to shout
yeah i shared this website before but it’s a webchat mh charity open until 10pm tonight.
https://www.takebackyourminduk.org
thank you so much
I really do give up I just wake up everyday like what is the point I’ve had no help and I’m tired
it is just getting quieter and quieter
Hey @LolaPumpkin13 I can hear you are really struggling right now, feeling like there is no point or help must be scary, we're here to support you. I'm wondering if you've had a change to read our relationship thread? it could be really helpful as you are struggling with a breakup right now.
no I haven’t I’m having a hard time finding it
Hi @LolaPumpkin13 , no worry at all, I'll share the link to the Boards section here all about Relationships: https://community.themix.org.uk/categories/sex-relationships.
It might be that other young people have posted threads there that you can relate to.
You're doing so well to continue opening up and talking about this.
i dont think i can take much more of this pain
Hey @LolaPumpkin13 I wondered if you interested in joining our support thread today? this would be a great place to discuss what you are going through, do you think this is something you would be interested in? you can join here: https://community.themix.org.uk/discussion/3608479/saturday-support-thread-21-02-2026/p1?new=1
I’m not feeling sure it is not going to change anything the pain isn’t going to go away
I know how frustrating this must be for you, with the pain feeling like it's not going to go away @LolaPumpkin13. I'm curious, did you manage to take a look at this https://www.takebackyourminduk.org/ that @eylah sent the other day?
I did but there was always some problems
I don’t think I will able to move on