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Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? w/c 17.11.25

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  • Ech0Ech0 Posts: 67 Boards Initiate

    @River I’m glad it went well and I admire to effort and hard work it takes to learn driving

  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,199 An Original Mixlorian

    hey :)

    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • NemuritaiNemuritai Posts: 556 Incredible Poster

    Hey @eylah (sorry I'm a little late) how are you doing today? <3

  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,199 An Original Mixlorian

    hey im gd thankyou. getting ready for my bf to come to mine tonight which will be nice :). <3 hru?

    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • NemuritaiNemuritai Posts: 556 Incredible Poster
    edited November 21

    Aww that sounds nice, I'm glad you're doing okay <3 I'm alright I think, I'm going to go out for coffee today which I've been too nervous to do for a while so that'll be good <3

  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,068 Master Poster
    edited November 21

    Im just worked up a bit with everything, just getting asked to do courses I got phoned to this confidence course which helps you with applications or get into volunteering which I never want to go, then unnecessary football events, then Christmas coming up Im hoping we don’t have to do this fake happy family Christmas get together shit, done it every year its just crowded, loud and overwhelming. Im sorry if I seem ungrateful though.

  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,068 Master Poster

    Im here just looking at myself, there's millionaires, famous people, people buying nice cars, then there's me, ive just been here getting pressured to go to some awards evening for some weekly 5 a side group, where did I go wrong

  • NemuritaiNemuritai Posts: 556 Incredible Poster

    @Redemption I hear you, and you don't seem ungrateful at all, honestly. It's understandable to feel frustrated with the way things are - your feelings are perfectly valid. I know that sometimes it may not be as simple as not going, but nobody has the right to pressure you into anything. I hope that doesn't sound too preachy or anything, I guess what I'm trying to say is that you deserve to do things that feel fulfilling and that make you happy.

    I know comparison can be really tough, and it's easy to compare yourself to others when you maybe feel stuck or dissatisfied. But I want to remind you that everyone has times where they feel the same way, no matter the circumstances, and I truly believe you'll get where you want to be, both with the job search and everything else. We're here for you <3

  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,068 Master Poster
  • NemuritaiNemuritai Posts: 556 Incredible Poster

    Goodnight everyone - I hope each and every one of you gets a good night's rest <3

  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,199 An Original Mixlorian
    edited November 22

    3am i can’t sleep :/

    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 2,674 Boards Guru

    @eylah hey my favourite twat, i'm awake if you want someone to talk to?

  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,199 An Original Mixlorian
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • Sian321Sian321 Community Manager Posts: 3,024 Boards Guru

    Hey @eylah , sounds like you may have had a restless night, and it can be exhausting to not be able to sleep. How are you doing? We're here if you'd like to talk more.

  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,199 An Original Mixlorian

    hey sian. im ok. yeah i had a difficult night but im ok. i just decorated my xmas tree with my bf. it looks rly nice :).

    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • NemuritaiNemuritai Posts: 556 Incredible Poster
    edited November 22

    Hey <3

  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,199 An Original Mixlorian
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • NemuritaiNemuritai Posts: 556 Incredible Poster

    Great to see you @eylah <3 I'm doing good, just looking for drawing inspo rn. I posted my first drawing in the creative corner btw just in case you wanted to see hehe <3 anyways hru?

  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 2,674 Boards Guru

    @eylah no worries, you haven't got anything to say sorry about, i'm really glad you were able to get some rest at least through the night.

  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,068 Master Poster

    I think people are quick to judge things like make assumptions too quickly without the full picture

  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,199 An Original Mixlorian
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • CutelivejazzCutelivejazz Posts: 302 The Mix Regular

    Im feeling really overstimulated and overwhelmed im not sure why everything just feels like a bit too much

  • NemuritaiNemuritai Posts: 556 Incredible Poster

    Hey there @Cutelivejazz, I just caught your post from yesterday. How are you doing today? If there's anything you'd like to get off your chest, you're welcome to share here <3

  • NemuritaiNemuritai Posts: 556 Incredible Poster

    I just wanted to wish everyone a good Sunday - I hope everyone remembers to take good care of themselves and do something that makes them feel happy, because you all deserve it. I'm so proud of everyone here for keeping on going despite everything <3

  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,199 An Original Mixlorian

    hey everyone. you’re all amazing. i hope you all have a lovely sunday. <3

    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • Ech0Ech0 Posts: 67 Boards Initiate

    thank you both that is very kind.

    @eylah I am sorry to hear that last night was tough but it sounds like you made something really beautiful with your tree which is great to hear.

    @Cutelivejazz I hear you Jazz, sometimes the world just feels like too much though I wish you were not feeling this way. You are doing your best and that is more than enough. We are here if you need anyone to talk to.

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