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wanting a significant other

toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 4,129 Community Veteran
edited November 2025 in Sex & Relationships
these 3am thoughts got me thinking about wanting a partner. i know im not ready for a relationship yet but its good to daydream about it.

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  • sinead276sinead276 Posts: 2,349 Boards Champion
    hey @toffuna101 hope you're doing okay this morning.

    those are perfectly normal thoughts to have - even if we aren't ready to actually get into relationships, it can be good to think about the type of partner we would want, the qualities we would look for etc. And there's no harm at all in a daydream about it - I know i've done it in the past plentyyyyy of times too :3
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 4,129 Community Veteran
    sinead276 wrote: »
    hey @toffuna101 hope you're doing okay this morning.

    those are perfectly normal thoughts to have - even if we aren't ready to actually get into relationships, it can be good to think about the type of partner we would want, the qualities we would look for etc. And there's no harm at all in a daydream about it - I know i've done it in the past plentyyyyy of times too :3

    thats reassuring to hear.
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,821 Master Poster
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    these 3am thoughts got me thinking about wanting a partner. i know im not ready for a relationship yet but its good to daydream about it.

    I also do it all the time too @toffuna101 pretty much everyday
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 4,129 Community Veteran
    Redemption wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    these 3am thoughts got me thinking about wanting a partner. i know im not ready for a relationship yet but its good to daydream about it.

    I also do it all the time too @toffuna101 pretty much everyday

    lets hope we both get partners someday.
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,821 Master Poster
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    these 3am thoughts got me thinking about wanting a partner. i know im not ready for a relationship yet but its good to daydream about it.

    I also do it all the time too @toffuna101 pretty much everyday

    lets hope we both get partners someday.

    Yh hopefully all 3 of us, your thread has had me thinking about the same topic now, its really common. We will find the right people.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 4,129 Community Veteran
    Redemption wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    these 3am thoughts got me thinking about wanting a partner. i know im not ready for a relationship yet but its good to daydream about it.

    I also do it all the time too @toffuna101 pretty much everyday

    lets hope we both get partners someday.

    Yh hopefully all 3 of us, your thread has had me thinking about the same topic now, its really common. We will find the right people.

    yeah, i forgot about @sinead276 by accident. exactly.
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