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the housing market

in the future i have no idea how im going to get a mortgage on a house because the mortgage rates are so high at the moment. my dad says when im 18 he and my mum will put me on the waiting list for social housing in which the cost of living will be significantly cheaper than if you were to get a mortgage but the waiting list for it is so long. ive heard people having to wait years just to get social housing which sucks because i want to move into my own place and be independent you know. the only way ill be able to get a mortgage is if i get a good job. and i kind of need to finish college to get one because realistically you cant get many good jobs with just your gcses. if youre lucky you could but im not a very lucky person honestly. another option is to go into supported living. ive talked about this before on here but that could be a backup option in case i dont get social housing or a mortgage on a house. but my parents dont know much about supported living spaces therefore i dont think they can help me very much in order for me to get that supported living space.
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What i'd advise is talk if you can to citizens advice about supported living spaces as they will be clued up on who to talk to and what it entails, or potentially about getting higher priority on the social housing waitlist if you have a disability. They can help advise you on the supported living spaces, and also about getting higher on the social housing waitlist. As for a mortgage, i have zero advice to give on that cause it's really bad right now. Bad enough that i'm leaving the country at the first chance i get to have a chance at home ownership in life.
It's good that your planning these things out early, but citizens advice is gonna be your best friend for anything your parents don't know, so it's worth talking with them. i'll drop you a link to citizens advice and their online advisor chat site.
https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/about-us/information/chat-with-an-adviser-online/
I second speaking with citizens advice. There is information out there about what gives you priority on the housing list, so it is worth checking to see if you tick any of those boxes. It turns out I ticked boxes I never even thought I would.
Supported living is not for me so I’ve never really looked into that, but it is also worth declaring any physical disabilities or mental health conditions you have if you apply for it or social housing, as it may give you more priority on the lists.
Edited to add that it is also worth noting that for a mortgage you need a sizeable deposit, so if you’re able to start saving now, it keeps your options more open.
thanks for giving me the link. ill chat to an advisor when i get closer to 18 or when i finish college. and in terms of having a disability, i do have cerebral palsy. and i have mental health diagnoses too.
thanks for the information.