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Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? w/c 25.08

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  • eylaheylah Posts: 9,070 Supreme Poster
    hey <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 9,070 Supreme Poster
    my football shirt is being delivered today i’m so excited!!
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 9,070 Supreme Poster
    @DonnerKebab . hru today? <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • Lili5BetLili5Bet Community Connector Posts: 198 Trailblazer
    Hey everyone <3
  • eylaheylah Posts: 9,070 Supreme Poster
    Lili5Bet wrote: »
    Hey everyone <3

    hey <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • Amy22Amy22 Posts: 5,464 Part of The Furniture
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    fine i guess.

    @eylah likewise. Things have just gotten incredibly confusing for me, and difficult.

    Sorry to hear that mate, life can be one heck of a roller-coaster can't it?. I'm here for you though.
    Just a person who likes pop culture and films
  • eylaheylah Posts: 9,070 Supreme Poster
    how is everyone?
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,865 Extreme Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    @DonnerKebab . hru today? <3

    @eylah surviving as usual thanks. How are you doing my favourite twat <3 ?

    I picked up another member to the fruit salad today <3

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  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,865 Extreme Poster
    Amy22 wrote: »
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    fine i guess.

    @eylah likewise. Things have just gotten incredibly confusing for me, and difficult.

    Sorry to hear that mate, life can be one heck of a roller-coaster can't it?. I'm here for you though.

    @Amy22 I really do appreciate that thanks. It's been a very tricky one lately for me. How are you doing?
  • eylaheylah Posts: 9,070 Supreme Poster
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    @DonnerKebab . hru today? <3

    @eylah surviving as usual thanks. How are you doing my favourite twat <3 ?

    I picked up another member to the fruit salad today <3

    9gasejxfotco.png

    aw i want them!! they’re so cute 🥺🥰
    hugsss im tired <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,237 Part of The Furniture
    edited August 27
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    @DonnerKebab . hru today? <3

    surviving as usual thanks. How are you doing my favourite twat <3 ?

    I picked up another member to the fruit salad today <3

    9gasejxfotco.png

    Nice and colourful bro
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 3,160 Boards Guru
    edited August 27
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    i cant sleep because im kinda anxious about going to the dentist. everytime they do a check-up they always clean my teeth.

    update: i said that i didnt want them to clean my teeth and they said ok but i have to come back in two weeks for them to clean my teeth and do a filling...
  • CutelivejazzCutelivejazz Posts: 21 Boards Initiate
    I cant sleep so much going on in my head I don't know whether to cry scream or laugh. I feel like my chest and stomach are in knots I just want to fall asleep and feel better
  • eylaheylah Posts: 9,070 Supreme Poster
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    i cant sleep because im kinda anxious about going to the dentist. everytime they do a check-up they always clean my teeth.

    update: i said that i didnt want them to clean my teeth and they said ok but i have to come back in two weeks for them to clean my teeth and do a filling...

    🫂 we’re here for you <3


    Cutelivejazz wrote: »
    I cant sleep so much going on in my head I don't know whether to cry scream or laugh. I feel like my chest and stomach are in knots I just want to fall asleep and feel better

    hi @Cutelivejazz . seems like last night was rly difficult for you. thought id check in with you and to see how you are today. we’re here for you. <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • CutelivejazzCutelivejazz Posts: 21 Boards Initiate
    edited 12:34PM
    Hi @eylah thanks for checking in. I'm not great. I had a panic attack last night and I'm still feeling a bit jittery. Yesterday was pretty chaotic. I was out with my friend and when we were at the bus stop this group of 3 or 4 men probably in their 20's were like basically chatting us up and they were smoking smth. And when one of the men was talking about my friend's keychain I clocked that there was smth fishy abt them. When the bus came they kept saying oh come with us we have a family saver it's fine just get on with us and I was like no its fine and there was this older lady probably late 40's and we were like oh no we're with her and they were like you don't gotta be like that and that was the end of it but it was still really scary and it affected me a lot I know it sounds silly and like it's not that big if a deal but it still affected me. A lot more happened yesterday but I don't really want to go into that.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 9,070 Supreme Poster
    Cutelivejazz wrote: »
    Hi @eylah thanks for checking in. I'm not great. I had a panic attack last night and I'm still feeling a bit jittery. Yesterday was pretty chaotic. I was out with my friend and when we were at the bus stop this group of 3 or 4 men probably in their 20's were like basically chatting us up and they were smoking smth. And when one of the men was talking about my friend's keychain I clocked that there was smth fishy abt them. When the bus came they kept saying oh come with us we have a family saver it's fine just get on with us and I was like no its fine and there was this older lady probably late 40's and we were like oh no we're with her and they were like you don't gotta be like that and that was the end of it but it was still really scary and it affected me a lot I know it sounds silly and like it's not that big if a deal but it still affected me. A lot more happened yesterday but I don't really want to go into that.

    i’m so sry to hear something like that happened to you. it is a big deal bc you experienced it and it is a traumatic thing to have to deal with. is there anything you can do for yourself today that might help bring you some ease? are you into soothing things? maybe having a relaxing bath or putting on a face mask might help you with bringing yourself back to ease. pls know i’m here and im listening. <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • CutelivejazzCutelivejazz Posts: 21 Boards Initiate
    @eylah I'm fine im used to this feeling so I just need to push through same thing happened with my maths teacher. It's not the best coping method but can't do anything else don't really have time for myself and I hate doing self care it feels more like a chore than smth enjoyable I just I don't know im struggling to find joy in life but this is just a rough patch ill be fine and if things don't get better (which they probably wont) ill keep pushing through bc I don't wanna see anyone upset that I'm gone. I'm fine but im not
  • eylaheylah Posts: 9,070 Supreme Poster
    Cutelivejazz wrote: »
    @eylah I'm fine im used to this feeling so I just need to push through same thing happened with my maths teacher. It's not the best coping method but can't do anything else don't really have time for myself and I hate doing self care it feels more like a chore than smth enjoyable I just I don't know im struggling to find joy in life but this is just a rough patch ill be fine and if things don't get better (which they probably wont) ill keep pushing through bc I don't wanna see anyone upset that I'm gone. I'm fine but im not

    we’re here as a community for you when you need support or a listening ear. i know it’s virtual but we care abt you. <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • CutelivejazzCutelivejazz Posts: 21 Boards Initiate
    @eylah. I'm sorry to bother you again but im really not okay i feel like there's a knot in my stomach im trying to get this stupid maths homework done but I can't even focus.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 9,070 Supreme Poster
    hey @Cutelivejazz . hey! you’re not bothering me. i’m here <3

    what’s going through your mind rn? what do you think may help rn ? do you think maybe having a break from doing your homework and maybe revisiting your homework when you’re feeling calmer and in a better headspace? <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • CutelivejazzCutelivejazz Posts: 21 Boards Initiate
    @eylah. Are you sure? I don't want to be like a burden you've helped me so much I just feel like a leech on here im literally asking for support from everyone and not offering support I swear im trying my best im really sorry
  • eylaheylah Posts: 9,070 Supreme Poster
    hey hey! @Cutelivejazz youre not being a burden! you are dealing with things that are extremely difficult and it’s understandable to feel how you’re feeling. you are deserving of support as much as anybody else and you deserve it. you don’t have to offer support to anyone especially if you’re going through a lot yourself. bc at the end of the day you’re the important one and you should put yourself first. that isn’t selfish it’s just the best thing to do! so pls don’t feel bad for not offering support to anyone else. <3

    nothing to apologise for jazz. i hear how upsetting things are for you atm and i rly feel for you. you’re so strong by sharing what is going on for you and it’s understandable that you’re feeling so many emotions rn and i just want you to know you’re loved and cared for.

    i am here for the rest of the day if you’re wanting to chat or get anything of your chest. i care abt you <3 btw you’re not bothering me in the slightest. i care so so much.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • CutelivejazzCutelivejazz Posts: 21 Boards Initiate
    @eylah. Thank you that means a lot. I dont know lately thing have been pretty shit. I'm prepping for A levels even though I just finished GCSEs feels like I cant catch a break and arguments with parents and stuff home's been a bit chaotic lately. When I told my mom about what happened on the bus she treated it like I was overreacting she said oh well nothings gonna happen in broad daylight you should of just said no and that hurt coming from her. Then she asks me why I never open up to her or my dad. Well why the fuck do you think? Everytime I open my mouth about something weighing on me it's either invalidated or turned into a huge argument so I try to find support elsewhere ill admit in the past I didn't get support from the best places but I didn't really know what else to do the safegaurding team at school are shit I hate their guts and fantasise about burning the school down with them still in it maybe im a bit messed up I don't know.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 9,070 Supreme Poster
    what happened on the bus @Cutelivejazz was not your fault and it should of had never happened! i’m so sry your mum wasn’t supportive with what happened and im sry bc you deserve to be treated and cared for. you definitely aren’t overreacting. it’s understandable to feel how you’re feeling with everything that you’ve had to go through.

    regarding your a-levels i’m not sure if this would work but is there any group sessions with other ppl your age ? abt the a-levels bc they do support groups with ppl your age where they revise together. <3

    i’m here for you @Cutelivejazz snd im listening you’re not alone. <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • CutelivejazzCutelivejazz Posts: 21 Boards Initiate
    @eylah I really dont like working with people I don't know bc im worried they're just going to make fun of me and talk behind my back abt how stupid I am and how I shouldnt be there (has happened many times in the past when revising for exams) or they might just mislead me as a joke bc its funny to see the girl everyone hates stumble over her words and embarras herself infront of everyone. People don't like me so I avoid when possible. I've had many people in the past say messed up things to me I remeber this one time I was in textiles class we were doing sowing and one of my FRIENDS handed me a piece of thread I thought it was so I didn't have to get up so I said thank you and she just started laughing and told me to go hang myself with it. People just don't like me i only have 2 real friends and being a very extraverted person that kinda sucks. I get pretty lonely at times :/
  • eylaheylah Posts: 9,070 Supreme Poster
    i’m so so sry that person was so horrible to you. i’m so proud of you for being here and sharing what is going on for you.

    i know it’s not the same as in person but im here as a friend over the screen. i care abt you and want the best for you and ill do my best to support you. <3 you can count on me as a supportive friend. <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • CutelivejazzCutelivejazz Posts: 21 Boards Initiate
    edited 2:20PM
    @eylah thanks you for been so kind I appreciate it im pretty tired so im just going to rest
  • eylaheylah Posts: 9,070 Supreme Poster
    i hope you can rest and take some time out and be kind to yourself. i’m always here for you @Cutelivejazz . <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
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