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Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? w/c 18.08

KatieKatie Community Manager Posts: 1,294 Wise Owl
edited August 18 in Health & Wellbeing
This is a space to chat or vent about whatever might be on your mind right now, nothing is too big or small!

Every Monday morning we will close the thread and start a new one so we have a fresh one each week. If you'd like to check out this week's triggering stuff edition thread, click here.
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  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,218 Part of The Furniture
    edited August 18
    Hey @toffuna101 I saw you wanted to tell me something on the last thread? Hope you're well too
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 3,153 Boards Guru
    i am thanks. i got a new phone today since my old one broke. i got the samsung s25 since my dad said that i can get it.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,975 Legendary Poster
    hey
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,218 Part of The Furniture
    eylah wrote: »
    hey

    Hey Eylah, how's you?
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,218 Part of The Furniture
    eylah wrote: »
    hey

    Thats so cool, you ended up getting a better phone than the a16, how is it?
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 3,153 Boards Guru
    Redemption wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hey

    Thats so cool, you ended up getting a better phone than the a16, how is it?

    its so cool, its small but its a good size for me since it can fit easily in most pockets
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,218 Part of The Furniture
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hey

    Thats so cool, you ended up getting a better phone than the a16, how is it?

    its so cool, its small but its a good size for me since it can fit easily in most pockets

    That's great, ok that its small as long as you like it, is it brand new?
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 3,153 Boards Guru
    edited August 18
    Redemption wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hey

    Thats so cool, you ended up getting a better phone than the a16, how is it?

    its so cool, its small but its a good size for me since it can fit easily in most pockets

    That's great, ok that its small as long as you like it, is it brand new?

    yeah, it costed my dad £720 including the charger. i thanked him a lot for buying it for me. also i have a screen protector since my mum had some extra at home. my mum is also getting the phone case for me soon but i don't know when she's getting it.
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,218 Part of The Furniture
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hey

    Thats so cool, you ended up getting a better phone than the a16, how is it?

    its so cool, its small but its a good size for me since it can fit easily in most pockets

    That's great, ok that its small as long as you like it, is it brand new?

    yeah, it costed my dad £720 including the charger. i thanked him a lot for buying it for me. also i have a screen protector since my mum had some extra at home. my mum is also getting the phone case for me soon but i don't know when she's getting it.

    That's a lot but you deserve it, Im not a fan of reconditioned phones just like I dont know where there have been, they can come in worse condition that they claim to be etc so new is the best option in my opinion. Sounds really great, flagship phone too so will be really nice. Screen protecter is an absolute must. What colour is it? I hope you get a nice phone case.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,975 Legendary Poster
    hi 👋🏼
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,218 Part of The Furniture
    eylah wrote: »
    hi 👋🏼

    Hey Eylah, how are you?
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 3,153 Boards Guru
    Redemption wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hey

    Thats so cool, you ended up getting a better phone than the a16, how is it?

    its so cool, its small but its a good size for me since it can fit easily in most pockets

    That's great, ok that its small as long as you like it, is it brand new?

    yeah, it costed my dad £720 including the charger. i thanked him a lot for buying it for me. also i have a screen protector since my mum had some extra at home. my mum is also getting the phone case for me soon but i don't know when she's getting it.

    That's a lot but you deserve it, Im not a fan of reconditioned phones just like I dont know where there have been, they can come in worse condition that they claim to be etc so new is the best option in my opinion. Sounds really great, flagship phone too so will be really nice. Screen protecter is an absolute must. What colour is it? I hope you get a nice phone case.

    its black
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,975 Legendary Poster
    Redemption wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hi 👋🏼

    Hey Eylah, how are you?

    im okay how are you?
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,218 Part of The Furniture
    eylah wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hi 👋🏼

    Hey Eylah, how are you?

    im okay how are you?

    Im struggling a bit Eylah but not too bad, i hope you sleep well 💜
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,975 Legendary Poster
    Redemption wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hi 👋🏼

    Hey Eylah, how are you?

    im okay how are you?

    Im struggling a bit Eylah but not too bad, i hope you sleep well 💜

    sending you hugs 🫂
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,218 Part of The Furniture
    Im struggling again 😪 and can't sleep
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,218 Part of The Furniture
    I can't do this anymore
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,842 Extreme Poster
    Redemption wrote: »
    I can't do this anymore

    @Redemption hey bro, i'm not sure if you're still awake but i just saw this and wanted to let you know that i'm here to chat to bro.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,975 Legendary Poster
    Redemption wrote: »
    I can't do this anymore

    are you safe??
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,218 Part of The Furniture
    Redemption wrote: »
    I can't do this anymore

    @Redemption hey bro, i'm not sure if you're still awake but i just saw this and wanted to let you know that i'm here to chat to bro.

    Thank you @DonnerKebab , i ended up sleeping but I can talk now if you want still
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,218 Part of The Furniture
    edited August 21
    eylah wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    I can't do this anymore

    are you safe??

    @eylah I am safe, I just struggle to sleep everyday, Im bored during the whole day, nothing to do, lonely, then comments when Im feeling shit as it is and uncertainty when things will change, its hard. Thank you for checking, I hope you're ok and slept well
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,842 Extreme Poster
    @Redemption hey bro, noticed you were online. I'm here if you want to talk a bit.
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,218 Part of The Furniture
    @Redemption hey bro, noticed you were online. I'm here if you want to talk a bit.

    @DonnerKebab sure bro, definitely, I hope you're ok?
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,842 Extreme Poster
    edited August 21
    Redemption wrote: »
    @Redemption hey bro, noticed you were online. I'm here if you want to talk a bit.

    @DonnerKebab sure bro, definitely, I hope you're ok?

    @Redemption Yeah, just a bit angry at the minute. I've found out a few things that suggest i've been lied to and misled for a while now, so i'm quite frustrated.

    How are things for you bro? I noticed you said you were struggling yesterday.
    Post edited by DonnerKebab on
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,218 Part of The Furniture
    edited August 21
    @DonnerKebab Im sorry to hear that, i hope everything is ok for you now. I take it you can't talk about it. If there's anything I can do Im here, I wish I could do more.

    I just was struggling to sleep yesterday and I think I will soon too but I appreciate you checking up, just my situation feeling rubbish bored all or most of my days its hard to deal with but thank you for checking up on me, you too @eylah , I was and am safe and thank you for the virtual hugs anyone who left one too ❤️. I just want things to get better, thats what I meant by "I can't do this anymore " like I want to stop feeling bored but want things to change rather than putting myself in an unsafe situation, I believe things will change and thats why Im keeping going, I just need to push through, its been a very long road but Im getting there, Id rather I take my time than rush into the wrong thing. Got a couple of work appointments tomorrow going to chat to them, it hard pushing through but go to and I'll get to where I wanna be.
  • Sian321Sian321 Community Manager Posts: 2,531 Boards Guru
    Hi @Redemption , thank you for letting us know that physically you are safe right now, however, I hear just how unbearable things have been feeling emotionally at times, pushing you a point to where you feel like you can't take it any longer. That sounds so overwhelming.

    Can I check in with how you're feeling today? I remember you mentioning you had an appointment with your work coach today, is that right? I wonder what you feel you might need today also to care for your mental health, whether that's self-care, or perhaps something you're needing to ask a loved one or a helpline professional for?

    The following spaces are here if you if you'd like a 121 space to chat in more detail:
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,975 Legendary Poster
    Redemption wrote: »
    @Redemption hey bro, noticed you were online. I'm here if you want to talk a bit.

    @DonnerKebab sure bro, definitely, I hope you're ok?

    @Redemption Yeah, just a bit angry at the minute. I've found out a few things that suggest i've been lied to and misled for a while now, so i'm quite frustrated.

    How are things for you bro? I noticed you said you were struggling yesterday.

    sending you hugs 🫂. im here if you want to talk you’re not alone i care abt you <3. how are you today?
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • independent_independent_ Community Connector Posts: 9,927 Supreme Poster
    Update for @Sian321 and @Leyla before you sign off for the weekend - the housing letter is sorted, it was as simple as a phone call and i managed to get through to them before it closed (miracle!!!) Turns out the evidence I have is ok and the bedroom thing is simpler too, you can apply just on the basis that there’s limited stock in the size you need. So that doesn’t require evidence. So relieved i got it sorted before the weekend, the most painful part was getting through their automated bot system to get to speak to a real person
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • LeylaLeyla Community Manager Posts: 298 The Mix Regular
    @independent_ Yahoooo! So glad it's sorted for you because I know it can ruin a weekend having something like that playing on your mind, so it's a relief it was relatively simple (other than technology being annoying, as usual). Woooo now you can have your pizza, drink and TV time in more peace!
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,218 Part of The Furniture
    edited August 22
    Sian321 wrote: »
    Hi @Redemption , thank you for letting us know that physically you are safe right now, however, I hear just how unbearable things have been feeling emotionally at times, pushing you a point to where you feel like you can't take it any longer. That sounds so overwhelming.

    Can I check in with how you're feeling today? I remember you mentioning you had an appointment with your work coach today, is that right? I wonder what you feel you might need today also to care for your mental health, whether that's self-care, or perhaps something you're needing to ask a loved one or a helpline professional for?

    The following spaces are here if you if you'd like a 121 space to chat in more detail:

    Hey @Sian321 your notification didn't come up but I hope you're well. I was struggling this morning/ afternoon but our daytime support chat helped not just a bit , it helped noticeably so thank you to you and Leyla and everyone else who supported me. I had a couple if appointments with my key worker and work coach yh. I need a helpline, Ill check them links you sent, thanks a lot.
    Post edited by Redemption on
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