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Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? w/c 04.08

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  • AnimalloverbAnimalloverb Posts: 127 The Mix Convert
    @Redemption
    I'm a waste honestly it doesn't matter. Support is not something I have deserved anyway
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,845 Legendary Poster
    @Redemption
    I'm a waste honestly it doesn't matter. Support is not something I have deserved anyway

    you definitely do deserve support bea. im sry you feel like that you dont deserve support but you rly do deserve support.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. ๐Ÿงธ
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,044 Part of The Furniture
    @Redemption
    I'm a waste honestly it doesn't matter. Support is not something I have deserved anyway

    No you're not a waste I absolutely promise you that and you are absolutely deserving of support, please please try to be kind to yourself, I know its easier said than done it might feel hard but you're amazing @Animalloverb โค๏ธ
  • AnimalloverbAnimalloverb Posts: 127 The Mix Convert
    @Redemption

    Thank you, I really appreciate it. But honestly mate. The things I talk about aren't even the things that are truly hurting you know.

    You want to know what's hurting. It's the fact that a family member of mine is really struggling mentally and is really trying to hide it because that's what I did for the longest time. Seeing him struggle because of things that are to do with me hurts. I want to help him but I can't because I am the one who put him in that position in the first place. So that's what hurts.

    But it's not just that. It's also the fact that I try and try and nothing ever goes right. My health is taking everything and no matter how much I push through it and fight it always gets worse.
    Like today I had a seizure on the way to work and someone called an ambulance but I didn't need a hospital as the seizures are normal for me so they let me go and I just went to work and got on with my work day and then had 2 more seizures and went home and did gym. You know and I am fighting my health the best I can as I never just want my health to take the things I do have from me.

    I'm not in need of help, I have had my help and I'm all good.
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,044 Part of The Furniture
    @Redemption

    Thank you, I really appreciate it. But honestly mate. The things I talk about aren't even the things that are truly hurting you know.

    You want to know what's hurting. It's the fact that a family member of mine is really struggling mentally and is really trying to hide it because that's what I did for the longest time. Seeing him struggle because of things that are to do with me hurts. I want to help him but I can't because I am the one who put him in that position in the first place. So that's what hurts.

    But it's not just that. It's also the fact that I try and try and nothing ever goes right. My health is taking everything and no matter how much I push through it and fight it always gets worse.
    Like today I had a seizure on the way to work and someone called an ambulance but I didn't need a hospital as the seizures are normal for me so they let me go and I just went to work and got on with my work day and then had 2 more seizures and went home and did gym. You know and I am fighting my health the best I can as I never just want my health to take the things I do have from me.

    I'm not in need of help, I have had my help and I'm all good.

    @Animalloverb you've done so well talking about, you should so proud of yourself. It sounds incredibly hard for you and Im so so sorry you have to go through all that. You are so so brave and strong. We are all here to support you through anything if you are ever need of help โค๏ธ.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,845 Legendary Poster
    @DonnerKebab sending you hugs ๐Ÿซ‚ i know youโ€™re going through a lot rn and just know im here for you. <3 thinking of you.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. ๐Ÿงธ
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,044 Part of The Furniture
    I keep getting thoughts doubting myself and was awake at 6 30 am struggling to get back to sleep, hopefully I sleep better and well tonight and things improve for my soon
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,845 Legendary Poster
    I keep getting thoughts doubting myself and was awake at 6 30 am struggling to get back to sleep, hopefully I sleep better and well tonight and things improve for my soon

    i hear you abt sleep i donโ€™t remember going to sleep last night lol woke up and it was 6am so i hear you. i hope tonight you can sleep better.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. ๐Ÿงธ
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,044 Part of The Furniture
    eylah wrote: ยป
    I keep getting thoughts doubting myself and was awake at 6 30 am struggling to get back to sleep, hopefully I sleep better and well tonight and things improve for my soon

    i hear you abt sleep i donโ€™t remember going to sleep last night lol woke up and it was 6am so i hear you. i hope tonight you can sleep better.

    @eylah I hope you sleep well too, not asleep so far, Im struggling and kinda wish I had a Mrs, I just hope things come together sooner rather than later. Its not fun atm. Hopefully we both sleep soon โค๏ธ
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,044 Part of The Furniture
    Ive been feeling like shit
  • AnimalloverbAnimalloverb Posts: 127 The Mix Convert
    @Redemption

    I am really sorry to hear your feeling like that, its not a nice way to feel at all.
    I'm here for you if you need someone to talk to.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,845 Legendary Poster
    hey everyone. <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. ๐Ÿงธ
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,044 Part of The Furniture
    eylah wrote: ยป
    hey everyone. <3

    Hey @eylah hows you?
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,845 Legendary Poster
    eylah wrote: ยป
    hey everyone. <3

    Hey @eylah hows you?

    hello! did you sleep well?
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. ๐Ÿงธ
  • AnimalloverbAnimalloverb Posts: 127 The Mix Convert
    Hey @eylah
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,845 Legendary Poster
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. ๐Ÿงธ
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,044 Part of The Furniture
    eylah wrote: ยป
    eylah wrote: ยป
    hey everyone. <3

    Hey @eylah hows you?

    hello! did you sleep well?

    @eylah not 100 percent but I think a bit better than yesterday. I had a bad dream too. I caught up a bit on sleep in the later morning though. What about you?
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,044 Part of The Furniture
    Im struggling, Im just trying to do little things like tiny and hoover my room a little bit, trying to gradually reduce my screen time because its baad. It's exhausting though.
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,044 Part of The Furniture
    Great chat tonight, I hoped it helped people here who went in it, I feel better and less alone joining
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,044 Part of The Furniture
    Im feeling lonely
  • AnimalloverbAnimalloverb Posts: 127 The Mix Convert
    @Redemption
    Sorry to hear that your feeling lonely
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,044 Part of The Furniture
    @Redemption
    Sorry to hear that your feeling lonely

    @Animalloverb I feel lonely everyday or most days during the day, its hard
  • AnimalloverbAnimalloverb Posts: 127 The Mix Convert
    @Redemption
    I get that, it must feel awful for you
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,859 The Mix Elder
    Lost my voice completely
    โœจ โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐’ท๐“‡๐’ถ๐“‹โ„ฏ. โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐’ท๐“‡๐“Š๐’พ๐“ˆโ„ฏ๐’น. โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐“Œ๐’ฝโ„ด ๐’พ๐“‚ ๐“‚โ„ฏ๐’ถ๐“ƒ๐“‰ ๐“‰โ„ด ๐’ทโ„ฏ โœจ

    โœจ ๐’ฏโ„‹โ„๐’ฎ โ„๐’ฎ โ„ณโ„ฐ โœจ
  • AnimalloverbAnimalloverb Posts: 127 The Mix Convert
    @River
    Loosing your voice is no fun at all. I hope you get it back soon.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,859 The Mix Elder
    My mum came in to my room and she was like โ€œoh you donโ€™t look well at allโ€ ๐Ÿฅฒ

    I hate being poorly
    โœจ โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐’ท๐“‡๐’ถ๐“‹โ„ฏ. โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐’ท๐“‡๐“Š๐’พ๐“ˆโ„ฏ๐’น. โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐“Œ๐’ฝโ„ด ๐’พ๐“‚ ๐“‚โ„ฏ๐’ถ๐“ƒ๐“‰ ๐“‰โ„ด ๐’ทโ„ฏ โœจ

    โœจ ๐’ฏโ„‹โ„๐’ฎ โ„๐’ฎ โ„ณโ„ฐ โœจ
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,044 Part of The Furniture
    @Redemption
    I get that, it must feel awful for you

    @Animalloverb it isn't fun
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