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@Redemption I know you'd have my back if we were allowed to talk about it, and i know you're supporting me in spirit bro, and those small messages of kind words that you were able to say meant a lot to me. You're more help than you give yourself credit for bro.
I'm 100% gonna be cleared, so there's nothing to worry about thankfully.
I get being tired too. It's 11pm now, and i'm too tired myself to even play a video game
Thanks so much @DonnerKebab great guy. Im glad you'll be cleared. I hope you get a decent sleep tonight.
@Redemption well, my brothers asleep now, so i've got free time to just relax. Gonna force in a few games of COD: WW2 and then just go to sleep. How about you?
And yeah, the MP will back me if it's taken further, so it's a huge relief. I'll be cleared, no doubt.
@DonnerKebab sounds fun to have gaming session, what console? Im gonna sleep soon
That's great you'll be cleared.
And yeah, once that happens though, then it's just deciding what then. Do I let it go and move on, or pursue it?
@eylah YES a fellow advanced warfare lover!!!! I love multiplayer on it. And i'm a bit of a monster on BO6. Which console do you play on?
xbox
@eylah No way, I do as well. I got all the COD's for xbox and play whenever i get the chance
I've honestly been dealing with a lot lately so i needed a game more than ever lol
Plus not like they had my address or anything
@eylah Nothing beats Xbox.
I'm just getting over a lot of stressful stuff these last few days, rough stuff. How are you my favourite twat?
@River I'm glad you've got it sorted and are safe. I know it's been a rough time, and it's gonna be scary, but all anybody can do is take it day at a time, and deal with tomorrow, tomorrow. If the matters resolved, it's resolved, so there shouldn't be any further issues with it.
@River I know it's a humiliating thing to get stuff you want private seen. If it's been sorted, all you need to do is show that it's been sorted to the police if the police are involved, and that's would be it. They aren't allowed to judge, or share, or mock, you are an adult, you don't have to share with family either.
Although it may be worth doing what i did, and if the Mix have informed you that they are contacting anybody, just reach out via email to them and show them screenshots showing whatever the situation is to be resolved and no danger is present if it's not. They can only really do anything if a crime has been committed i think, or if they have concerns of safety.
But in all likelihood, nothing more will be done. The mix will maybe ask for a statement from someone involved like Anna showing it's been reported to something and the matter is resolved, and that's likely all that will happen. They don't like reporting more than one person a week. It reads badly for them.
I'm so sorry your going through this hell right now River, you really don't deserve it. Meds can take time to kick in, which might be why, but it might also be worth getting back in contact with your doctor. I get the feeling of breaking point and regretting talking about it, but if the issue is resolved and there no criminal aspect or danger to you involved, then the police likely can't push it if you don't want. Best thing to do, is follow Anna's advice on things and if the police are involved, just do what they say. I wish i could offer more than this, but it's all i can say. Sending you a hug friend
@River I know it's scary for you right now, could Anna perhaps give you a statement saying it's been resolved and perhaps explain how it's been reported.
Worst case scenario, the Mix ask, and you show the conversation to the Mix and it ends there, just so they can see it's been resolved, and if the police are involved, just show the police online via email and it ends there. It doesn't mean it's getting escalated or you're going to have to go through embarrassment. I wish i could offer some better advice than this. I'm here for you friend through it all if you want.
Also I’m not hiding anything I blocked out the username as didn’t want people to gain access to it, only some people need to know the situation
@River I fully understand, and don't want to know the details because it's clearly uncomfortable for you and that sort of stuff should stay private whatever it is. But i understand it is must be extremely difficult, and i'm so sorry your facing this battle. It's unfair for you.
But i want you to know, I've been at the stage of being to scared to sleep. It's a horrible feeling, and i wish i could give you some advice on how to overcome it, but the only way I did was getting so tired that i ended up falling asleep. I know it's no consolation, but I'm here for as long as you want to talk for friend.
Sorry for rambling, I’m here if you want to vent or anything however you know where to find me if you don’t feel comfy on here @DonnerKebab
@River It's understandable. If it's any consolation, there's a chance I'm gonna have counter terror crawling over every aspect of my life soon enough, from internet history to possibly interviewing family just to rule out radicalism, if they take the crap claims seriously which they most likely won't. By the looks of it though for you, just showing it's been reported via that screenshot River is all they'll need to know, but i understand if it's too embarrassing to stay after, if they want more info.
And don't ever apologise for venting about things. You've listened and supported me venting enough times friend. And thank you River, you really are the greatest