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Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? W/C 07.07.25

LeylaLeyla Community Manager Posts: 276 The Mix Regular
edited July 14 in Health & Wellbeing
This is a space to chat or vent about whatever might be on your mind right now, nothing is too big or small!

Every Monday morning we will close the thread and start a new one so we have a fresh one each week. If you'd like to check out this week's triggering stuff edition thread, click here.
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  • independent_independent_ Community Connector Posts: 9,873 Supreme Poster
    This makes sense tbh as they were very long. Tagging @DonnerKebab here as the author of the original threads.
    โ€œSometimes the people around you wonโ€™t understand your journey. They donโ€™t need to, itโ€™s not for them.โ€
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,847 Legendary Poster
    hey everyone!
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. ๐Ÿงธ
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,044 Part of The Furniture
    @DonnerKebab you ok mate?
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,044 Part of The Furniture
    edited July 7
    eylah wrote: ยป
    hey everyone!

    Hey @eylah you ok โค๏ธ?
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 3,142 Boards Guru
    i broke my chair lol. im ok, im safe.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,847 Legendary Poster
    gd morning everyone! <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. ๐Ÿงธ
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,859 The Mix Elder
    I canโ€™t find the other thread butโ€ฆ.

    TW// self harm
    Someone posted pictures of there sh on TikTok and they were bad ๐Ÿ˜ญ
    โœจ โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐’ท๐“‡๐’ถ๐“‹โ„ฏ. โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐’ท๐“‡๐“Š๐’พ๐“ˆโ„ฏ๐’น. โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐“Œ๐’ฝโ„ด ๐’พ๐“‚ ๐“‚โ„ฏ๐’ถ๐“ƒ๐“‰ ๐“‰โ„ด ๐’ทโ„ฏ โœจ

    โœจ ๐’ฏโ„‹โ„๐’ฎ โ„๐’ฎ โ„ณโ„ฐ โœจ
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,746 Extreme Poster
    eylah wrote: ยป
    gd morning everyone! <3

    @eylah morning eylah, how are you?
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,746 Extreme Poster
    River wrote: ยป
    I canโ€™t find the other thread butโ€ฆ.

    TW// self harm
    Someone posted pictures of there sh on TikTok and they were bad ๐Ÿ˜ญ

    @River that must be rough to see on such a tough day. It might be best to steer away from apps like that, if only for today, just to avoid having to see that sort of stuff.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,859 The Mix Elder
    @DonnerKebab yeah ๐Ÿ’•
    โœจ โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐’ท๐“‡๐’ถ๐“‹โ„ฏ. โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐’ท๐“‡๐“Š๐’พ๐“ˆโ„ฏ๐’น. โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐“Œ๐’ฝโ„ด ๐’พ๐“‚ ๐“‚โ„ฏ๐’ถ๐“ƒ๐“‰ ๐“‰โ„ด ๐’ทโ„ฏ โœจ

    โœจ ๐’ฏโ„‹โ„๐’ฎ โ„๐’ฎ โ„ณโ„ฐ โœจ
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,746 Extreme Poster
    River wrote: ยป
    @DonnerKebab yeah ๐Ÿ’•

    @River just for today you know take a break from it, you don't need to see that sort of stuff, plus Tiktok algorithms are rather shit
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,859 The Mix Elder
    I have the urge to relapse ๐Ÿ˜•
    โœจ โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐’ท๐“‡๐’ถ๐“‹โ„ฏ. โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐’ท๐“‡๐“Š๐’พ๐“ˆโ„ฏ๐’น. โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐“Œ๐’ฝโ„ด ๐’พ๐“‚ ๐“‚โ„ฏ๐’ถ๐“ƒ๐“‰ ๐“‰โ„ด ๐’ทโ„ฏ โœจ

    โœจ ๐’ฏโ„‹โ„๐’ฎ โ„๐’ฎ โ„ณโ„ฐ โœจ
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,746 Extreme Poster
    River wrote: ยป
    I have the urge to relapse ๐Ÿ˜•

    @River it's understandable, but you're an insanely brave and strong person, and I know your trying your hardest not too relapse. I'm proud of you no matter what friend, but keep trying to resist those urges as best you can. Never let this world pull you down <3 .
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,859 The Mix Elder
    @DonnerKebab my life is going so well today, I canโ€™t even get out of bed ๐Ÿฅฒ
    โœจ โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐’ท๐“‡๐’ถ๐“‹โ„ฏ. โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐’ท๐“‡๐“Š๐’พ๐“ˆโ„ฏ๐’น. โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐“Œ๐’ฝโ„ด ๐’พ๐“‚ ๐“‚โ„ฏ๐’ถ๐“ƒ๐“‰ ๐“‰โ„ด ๐’ทโ„ฏ โœจ

    โœจ ๐’ฏโ„‹โ„๐’ฎ โ„๐’ฎ โ„ณโ„ฐ โœจ
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,746 Extreme Poster
    River wrote: ยป
    @DonnerKebab my life is going so well today, I canโ€™t even get out of bed ๐Ÿฅฒ

    @River that's okay, some days are really difficult, and there's no shame in that. Everybody has tough days, and i know how significant it is for you, but even though you might not see it yourself right now, you're doing amazing, and your making it through today, slowly, bit by bit, and i'm proud of you.
  • independent_independent_ Community Connector Posts: 9,873 Supreme Poster
    edited July 8
    Good morning guys <3

    Last bits of holiday packing and cleaning today, all while my back really hurts. Fun times, changing the bed with a bad back wasnโ€™t exactly the nicest experience, and for some reason Iโ€™ve told mum Iโ€™ll help her with hers (super king so hard to do yourself). Wish me luck.

    I think the cleaning is done for now though at least in my room, nice to come back to a clean room eh. Just gotta get the toiletries that I can ready, pop to the tanning salon and then i can finally chill. Trying to leave myself as little to do tomorrow morning as possible tbh
    โ€œSometimes the people around you wonโ€™t understand your journey. They donโ€™t need to, itโ€™s not for them.โ€
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,859 The Mix Elder
    TW// suicide (donโ€™t put well done cos not happy about it)
    f7528amko112.png
    โœจ โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐’ท๐“‡๐’ถ๐“‹โ„ฏ. โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐’ท๐“‡๐“Š๐’พ๐“ˆโ„ฏ๐’น. โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐“Œ๐’ฝโ„ด ๐’พ๐“‚ ๐“‚โ„ฏ๐’ถ๐“ƒ๐“‰ ๐“‰โ„ด ๐’ทโ„ฏ โœจ

    โœจ ๐’ฏโ„‹โ„๐’ฎ โ„๐’ฎ โ„ณโ„ฐ โœจ
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,847 Legendary Poster
    my new tattoo

    cxxy9ckz3vw0.jpeg
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. ๐Ÿงธ
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,746 Extreme Poster
    @eylah that is a beautiful tattoo with a beautiful message, i love it
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,847 Legendary Poster
    im so sleepy ๐Ÿ˜ด
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. ๐Ÿงธ
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 3,142 Boards Guru
    i brought an isagi t-shirt from blue lock ahead of my upcoming birthday so im excited for it to come. i gave myself enough time so that it can come on time on the 20th of july. i dont mind if it comes earlier though, that just means that the staff at crunchyroll are doing their jobs well lol. also i ordered a medium and i dont know if it will fit me since it didnt have a size guide but we'll just have to wait and see. i hope it fits anyways as its part of my birthday money.
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,044 Part of The Furniture
    Hey @DonnerKebab , not spoken today, how have you been mate?
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,859 The Mix Elder
    edited July 8
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    Post edited by River on
    โœจ โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐’ท๐“‡๐’ถ๐“‹โ„ฏ. โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐’ท๐“‡๐“Š๐’พ๐“ˆโ„ฏ๐’น. โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐“Œ๐’ฝโ„ด ๐’พ๐“‚ ๐“‚โ„ฏ๐’ถ๐“ƒ๐“‰ ๐“‰โ„ด ๐’ทโ„ฏ โœจ

    โœจ ๐’ฏโ„‹โ„๐’ฎ โ„๐’ฎ โ„ณโ„ฐ โœจ
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,746 Extreme Poster
    edited July 8
    Hey @DonnerKebab , not spoken today, how have you been mate?

    @Redemption fine thanks bro, I've got to be careful with what i say, but i'm a little stressed expecting counter terror on my doorstep at any moment, but i've enlisted support from an MP.

    Just stress when it needn't be, but i can't talk to much about it. Other than that, pretty good really. Had a few meltdowns with my brother the last few days cause he's not well, but we're getting a handle on that and I've been working with his MDT at the hospital to get calming medication for him, as his psychologist thinks it's the best course of action.

    How are you doing bro?

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  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,859 The Mix Elder
    edited July 8
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    โœจ โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐’ท๐“‡๐’ถ๐“‹โ„ฏ. โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐’ท๐“‡๐“Š๐’พ๐“ˆโ„ฏ๐’น. โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐“Œ๐’ฝโ„ด ๐’พ๐“‚ ๐“‚โ„ฏ๐’ถ๐“ƒ๐“‰ ๐“‰โ„ด ๐’ทโ„ฏ โœจ

    โœจ ๐’ฏโ„‹โ„๐’ฎ โ„๐’ฎ โ„ณโ„ฐ โœจ
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,746 Extreme Poster
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  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,044 Part of The Furniture
    Hey @DonnerKebab , not spoken today, how have you been mate?

    @Redemption fine thanks bro, I've got to be careful with what i say, but i'm a little stressed expecting counter terror on my doorstep at any moment, but i've enlisted support from an MP, I'm making contact with free speech union, and i've got my defence fully prepared with proof and evidence to clear my name, and am legally going to be cleared without question, assuming it's not instantly dismissed. Then it's just countering legally you know. I might have to drain my savings for the masters degree for it, but it is what it is.

    Just stress when it needn't be, but i can't talk to much about it. Other than that, pretty good really. Had a few meltdowns with my brother the last few days cause he's not well, but we're getting a handle on that and I've been working with his MDT at the hospital to get calming medication for him, as his psychologist thinks it's the best course of action.

    How are you doing bro?

    You should be ok @DonnerKebab i can't say much about it either that's why I've not been much help. Im ok thanks, just tired.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,859 The Mix Elder
    edited July 8
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    โœจ โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐’ท๐“‡๐’ถ๐“‹โ„ฏ. โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐’ท๐“‡๐“Š๐’พ๐“ˆโ„ฏ๐’น. โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐“Œ๐’ฝโ„ด ๐’พ๐“‚ ๐“‚โ„ฏ๐’ถ๐“ƒ๐“‰ ๐“‰โ„ด ๐’ทโ„ฏ โœจ

    โœจ ๐’ฏโ„‹โ„๐’ฎ โ„๐’ฎ โ„ณโ„ฐ โœจ
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,746 Extreme Poster
    edited July 8
    @River Samaritan's offering words of wisdom once again. What will they think of next? You know, i swear we joked about the helplines advice a week or two ago after the milkshake argument they made, and you said something like their next advice would be to breathe air. Predicting the future.

    I know today's been a rough day for you River, but you did so well to make it through it despite everything that's been thrown your way, and you should be proud of making it through friend.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,859 The Mix Elder
    edited July 8
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    โœจ โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐’ท๐“‡๐’ถ๐“‹โ„ฏ. โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐’ท๐“‡๐“Š๐’พ๐“ˆโ„ฏ๐’น. โ„ ๐’ถ๐“‚ ๐“Œ๐’ฝโ„ด ๐’พ๐“‚ ๐“‚โ„ฏ๐’ถ๐“ƒ๐“‰ ๐“‰โ„ด ๐’ทโ„ฏ โœจ

    โœจ ๐’ฏโ„‹โ„๐’ฎ โ„๐’ฎ โ„ณโ„ฐ โœจ
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