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ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,900 The Mix Elder
in Health & Wellbeing
Why don't ppl why r bullies don't admit fault like management or carers. They've been told not to tlk me outside of visits, which included wen I was frozen in the road, wat would b the proper way of dealing with it. Do I hav to accept support if i no they are wrongens?
They reversed a situation making to look tht I was in the wrong, because of tht I missed wellbeing call n therapy. Telling the carer the truth tired me out. Don't think they took it on boàrd
Crazy mad insane

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  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,900 The Mix Elder
    They get me feeling uneasy most days
    Crazy mad insane
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,900 The Mix Elder
    They ignored me wen I ask for help wen I desperately need it
    Crazy mad insane
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,900 The Mix Elder
    edited June 2025
    They give me a weekly 'timesheet' so they come anyway. They told me I have to accept support, I do. But the management told them to b a**holes towards me just recently
    Crazy mad insane
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    hi ellie it seems like a lot is going on for you atm and i just wanted to ask if your staff are making you feel uneasy or not listening to your needs can you raise this with anyone bc you deserve to be cared abt and listened to. <3 sending you hugs
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • Sian321Sian321 Community Manager Posts: 3,654 Community Veteran
    @ellie2000 , thank you for sharing this.

    You mentioned that:
    But the management told them to b a**holes towards me just recently

    Can I ask when you heard this, and how you learnt that management had told your carers to treat you this way?
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,900 The Mix Elder
    Sian321 wrote: »
    @ellie2000 , thank you for sharing this.

    You mentioned that:
    But the management told them to b a**holes towards me just recently

    Can I ask when you heard this, and how you learnt that management had told your carers to treat you this way?

    I found out wen I sed 'help me' wen I froze in the road. And another carer sed 'I'm not supposed to talk to u'
    Crazy mad insane
  • Sian321Sian321 Community Manager Posts: 3,654 Community Veteran
    @ellie2000 , you're doing really well to share about this.

    Can I ask when you were in the road?
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,900 The Mix Elder
    edited July 2025
    @Sian321 a month ago, wen I brought it up they brought up a situation which painted me as a bad person coz they turned it round, I walked away tht day instead of making my point. We told the advocate everything 😊
    Somedays i feel emotions all at once, would tht make u freeze on the spot? Everything's gd atm. But wen something is sed I think to much
    Crazy mad insane
  • Sian321Sian321 Community Manager Posts: 3,654 Community Veteran
    @ellie2000 , that's really positive that you've been able to tell your advocate.

    Can I ask, how do you get on with your advocate? Do you feel listened to by them?

    We're here for you.
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