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  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 294 The Mix Regular
    @Rose113 You have over 3700 posts on the mix, supporting others going through had times, and offering them words of kindness and support. On the general chats and support chats, you also offer so many words of kindness and support again for others. Probably nearing the 10,000 mark if you included everything i'm guessing. You really think somebody that kind and supportive of others doesn't deserve the world of kindness back? You are not irrelevant, not a waste of space, and that is not up for debate. The support chats are 1000 times better with you there, so are general chats. So's the boards. You're just struggling to see that right now.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,606 Master Poster
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @eylah You deserve all the support in the world. Losing a mum is the worst thing in the world, it's 100% normal to be all over the place from it and broken up. Your doing amazingly given the circumstances, and we are all more proud of you than you can possibly know. There aren't any words that can make the pain of the grief go away, but know we're all here, and all care about you. And thank you for being here for me eylah. It means a lot.

    thankyou so much i just feel like everything is so much in my head i just wish i could let it all out but idk how. it just feels very heavy and it’s a lot when im on little sleep and my head / body is struggling. thankyou for your kindness <3 of course, i am always here for you no matter what happens bc youre so kind to us and very supportive so it’s only fair that you get that kindness back <3.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • Rose113Rose113 Community Connector Posts: 3,787 Community Veteran
    If that really is true then why most the time I don’t get it back, face it I’m a curse to this world I always have been and nowt will change any of that
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,606 Master Poster
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    howre you both @Redemption @toffuna101 ? just thought id check in with you <3

    im ok thanks for asking <3

    that’s okay im always here for you <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 294 The Mix Regular
    @eylah It's normal to not know how to let it all out. there's no guidebook or rules about it. No guidance or anything. Everybody handles grief differently, and everybody has different ways of letting it out. It just takes a bit of times for some people to figure out how to release all that grief and pain. And with everything else going on for you, it's gonna have made it harder to process it all. But you'll figure out how eventually. It just takes time sometimes. And thank you for your kind words. I'm kind and supportive to you all, but that's just because you all deserve it.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,514 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    howre you both @Redemption @toffuna101 ? just thought id check in with you <3

    im ok thanks for asking <3

    that’s okay im always here for you <3

    and im always here for you too. <3
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,606 Master Poster
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @eylah It's normal to not know how to let it all out. there's no guidebook or rules about it. No guidance or anything. Everybody handles grief differently, and everybody has different ways of letting it out. It just takes a bit of times for some people to figure out how to release all that grief and pain. And with everything else going on for you, it's gonna have made it harder to process it all. But you'll figure out how eventually. It just takes time sometimes. And thank you for your kind words. I'm kind and supportive to you all, but that's just because you all deserve it.

    youre very kind thankyou! it just feels so silly of me to be struggling so much with her death bc she passed away in september last year and i just feel rly stupid for not having my shit together if you know what i mean? i feel so alone in the real world and i just i don’t rly know i am trying my best but it doesn’t seem enough. :( i hate myself
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    howre you both @Redemption @toffuna101 ? just thought id check in with you <3

    im ok thanks for asking <3

    that’s okay im always here for you <3

    and im always here for you too. <3

    thankyou so much! <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 294 The Mix Regular
    Rose113 wrote: »
    If that really is true then why most the time I don’t get it back, face it I’m a curse to this world I always have been and nowt will change any of that

    because the world is a broken place @Rose113 . But just because the world is broken, and people who are supposed to show you that kindness back and look after you, failed you, it doesn't ever mean you deserve to be failed.

    You are a blessing to this world @Rose113 and the actions of the people around you aren't indicative of your worth or how you deserve to be treated. You are a blessing to this community, and to everybody around you. And if those around you take that for granted, then fuck them (sorry mods for the language but it's warranted).
  • Rose113Rose113 Community Connector Posts: 3,787 Community Veteran
    This on repeat https://youtu.be/9VZhI5iafH0?si=Wm_WzgskSRFLDHju TW- if u relate like me then sorry
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,514 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @eylah It's normal to not know how to let it all out. there's no guidebook or rules about it. No guidance or anything. Everybody handles grief differently, and everybody has different ways of letting it out. It just takes a bit of times for some people to figure out how to release all that grief and pain. And with everything else going on for you, it's gonna have made it harder to process it all. But you'll figure out how eventually. It just takes time sometimes. And thank you for your kind words. I'm kind and supportive to you all, but that's just because you all deserve it.

    youre very kind thankyou! it just feels so silly of me to be struggling so much with her death bc she passed away in september last year and i just feel rly stupid for not having my shit together if you know what i mean? i feel so alone in the real world and i just i don’t rly know i am trying my best but it doesn’t seem enough. :( i hate myself
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    howre you both @Redemption @toffuna101 ? just thought id check in with you <3

    im ok thanks for asking <3

    that’s okay im always here for you <3

    and im always here for you too. <3

    thankyou so much! <3

    no problem.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 294 The Mix Regular
    @eylah There is nothing silly about struggling with grief. I would argue not struggling would be a bit silly. Nobody ever has their shit together after the loss of there mum, even years later. It's not stupid, it's not silly, it's human. It's grief. And that loneliness, it would drive anybody mad, and yet here you are, supporting others still, and being kind to others. That's amazing.

    And another thing is that you are trying your best, and that's all anybody can do, and your doing a damn fine job of it. You are special Eylah, remember that. We are proud of you.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 294 The Mix Regular
    @Rose113 you might be able to relate to all of that song, but the one part you are not is being hopeless. Everything else, yes, but hopeless, never. You are not hopeless, just hurt by the world and people who were supposed to care for you. You might feel hopeless, but i promise you, you are not my friend.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 294 The Mix Regular
    Everyone, i've got to take my brother for his daily walk. I'll be back in an hour. love you all.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,606 Master Poster
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @eylah There is nothing silly about struggling with grief. I would argue not struggling would be a bit silly. Nobody ever has their shit together after the loss of there mum, even years later. It's not stupid, it's not silly, it's human. It's grief. And that loneliness, it would drive anybody mad, and yet here you are, supporting others still, and being kind to others. That's amazing.

    And another thing is that you are trying your best, and that's all anybody can do, and your doing a damn fine job of it. You are special Eylah, remember that. We are proud of you.

    thankyou so much im trying my best every day but idk i just continue to struggle mentally and i just give up most days bc it is shit. i hate my brain i hate everything that’s apart of me bc it is failing one way or another it’s shit :(.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,606 Master Poster
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    Everyone, i've got to take my brother for his daily walk. I'll be back in an hour. love you all.

    take care! have a nice walk with your brother <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 294 The Mix Regular
    Hey everyone, back now, here to talk
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,606 Master Poster
    hey @DonnerKebab <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,514 Boards Guru
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    Hey everyone, back now, here to talk

    hellooo
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 294 The Mix Regular
    @toffuna101 you alright? How's today been for you?

    @eylah just want to say that your not failing as you said. Your struggling but still moving forward and still kind at heart, which makes you an absolute warrior.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,606 Master Poster
    im so triggered 😔
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,514 Boards Guru
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @toffuna101 you alright? How's today been for you?

    @eylah just want to say that your not failing as you said. Your struggling but still moving forward and still kind at heart, which makes you an absolute warrior.

    yeah im ok thanks. today's just been okay for me. nothing really interesting happened. although tomorrow im going out with my carer. i believe we're going to mcdonald's then the park.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 294 The Mix Regular
    eylah wrote: »
    im so triggered 😔

    @eylah Can i ask what it is that's triggered you if you don't mind me asking
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,606 Master Poster
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    im so triggered 😔

    @eylah Can i ask what it is that's triggered you if you don't mind me asking

    this girl and what’s shes saying/sending to me 😔
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 294 The Mix Regular
    @toffuna101 Looking forward to it mate? Are you a big mac or wrap kind of person?
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,514 Boards Guru
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @toffuna101 Looking forward to it mate? Are you a big mac or wrap kind of person?

    @DonnerKebab yeah i am. both.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 294 The Mix Regular
    edited June 7
    @toffuna101 huzzah, someone who knows the right answer. Big Mac AND a wrap. Plus maybe some chicken nuggets. Sorry for the crap meme, but it fits very well here.

    uf2sox42bm58.png

  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 294 The Mix Regular

    eylah wrote: »
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    im so triggered 😔

    @eylah Can i ask what it is that's triggered you if you don't mind me asking

    this girl and what’s shes saying/sending to me 😔

    @eylah what has she been saying?
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,514 Boards Guru
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @toffuna101 huzzah, someone who knows the right answer. Big Mac AND a wrap. Plus maybe some chicken nuggets. Sorry for the crap meme, but it fits very well here.

    uf2sox42bm58.png

    @DonnerKebab nice meme
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,606 Master Poster
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    im so triggered 😔

    @eylah Can i ask what it is that's triggered you if you don't mind me asking

    this girl and what’s shes saying/sending to me 😔

    @eylah what has she been saying?

    its not just what shes been saying that’s triggering me its other stuff too. but cant share bc its so triggering. :heartbreak:
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,606 Master Poster
    ii don’t want to be here man
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
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