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i fucking hate spam calls. never answer numbers you don’t know. or no caller ids lol if it’s important they’ll leave a voicemail.
yeah. i only answer no caller ids if theyre from camhs.
@Rose113 Hey, here to talk if you want
But, and i know this sounds out of line me saying this, it can get better. In future, things improve. Bit by bit and slowly. You start to get coping mechanisms, start to relish the small moments in life for joy and happiness, and the hope for the future is what makes you pull through. At least this is what it was with me. I think, right now, your at a rock bottom point, and it's hard to see things getting better, but, i promise, things can improve. Maybe not overnight, but slowly, over time.
Sending you another virtual hug
@Rose113 Doesn't mean i'm gonna stop trying though. So, can i ask when you last ate and slept?
Have you thought about maybe talking to your GP about sleep? I know you mentioned your GP's were useless buggers, but it might be worth seeking sleeping help from them, as hard as it sounds. And failing that, if they act like they normally do, or if it's too tricky after how things went last time, can I ask do you use your phone just before bed? If you do, try and put on a blue light filter, because it messes with people's natural sleeping patterns. And maybe talk to a pharmacist as well. They tend to be less overworked than GP's and less dismissive of sleep issues, and will advise you if it's worth talking to to a GP, or if they can help you instead..
@eylah what's happened? I'm here to talk my friend.
appreciate you so so much! im just struggling with dark thoughts rn ones that arent going away. howre you?
I’d have to wait till the 16th to see my doctor because that’s with DR’M who is actually nice but I don’t know
And i'm glad your reaching out for professional help from a doctor, who isn't just a baboon in a doctors outfit. Hopefully they'll be able to help you properly. still proud of you for pushing through all of this and still reaching out.
@DonnerKebab tw// sh
i just keep reminding myself of when my life went to shits last year and i can’t stop thinking abt the time i had to say gd bye to my mum. i am all over the place.
im glad youre doing fine @DonnerKebab
im ok thanks for asking
I've only been on the mix for 1 month and 3 days, and let me tell you, you are a huge part of it. A giant part of it. There would be a huge @Rose113 sized hole in the mix without you here, and it'll just a little less of a kind place without you. We would all notice, and be sad to see you no longer on here. You and @eylah make up like 90% of the kindness on this platform, and i would be sad to see you leave without getting the sort of kindness you deserve back. Again, it would be noticeable, and everybody would know, because you are a huge part of what makes the Mix a safe supportive place.
and plus this community is quite small compared to other online communities so we would notice if someone left.