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(TW suicidal thoughts) how tf do people expect me to not want to kill myself when I’m undesirable

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  • LilyLily Posts: 75 Budding Regular
    Hey @bignosegirly0 ,

    Thank you for reaching out to us, you've done so well to share what is going on for you at the moment. It sounds like things are feeling really tough at the moment, and we are here to support you. We are going to reach out to you in DMs to carry on this conversation and further support you there.
  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 2,624 Boards Guru
    @bignosegirly0 My heart is breaking for you right now. Nobody, and I mean NOBODY deserves to be treated like you have or to feel the way you do. I don't know what you look like, and i wouldn't say something that i didn't know to be 100% true, so i can't comment on you're looks, but let me tell you what I can say. Nobody is as bad as you describe. The men you work with, are assholes. Genuine sexist assholes, treating people based on looks, not character. That they treat all their other female colleagues the same, should surely tell you that these are not nice people, and there opinions shouldn't be entertained for a moment. Looks fade, no matter what. No matter how beautiful or ugly, looks fade with time for everybody. A supermodel? They'll look like davros by age 80. Pretty sure we all will. But the only thing that's forever is your personality and soul, and let me tell you something, you're soul and you're personality is a beautiful thing.

    And about the men not wanting to date you, I can only say this from a male perspective, but i have never approached a woman, nor have about 50% of young men today, because we don't want to make them uncomfortable or be seen as creeps. Most men, are genuinely afraid to make the first move. Have you ever considered that there are a lot of men out there who would want to date you, but are afraid to approach you? Again, not trying to sound creepy or anything, and I'm sorry if I'm coming across that way, but I think outside of the top 10% of men, men are happy with somebody who loves them, with a kind caring personality, and most men are afraid to make the first move.

    I promise you, you aren't as undesirable as you think you are, and the colleagues you work with, that they treat all their female co-workers like that, is disgusting, and you shouldn't have to deal with that. You deserve much better. Again, sorry if any of this sounds weird or creepy.
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