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B4 u move

ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,903 The Mix Elder
in Health & Wellbeing
Wen I move I hav to have a meltdown or ppl hav to find out that I'd been to assertive. Y does take a event for something to happen?
Crazy mad insane

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  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,615 An Original Mixlorian
    moving can bring us so many emotions so having a meltdown if you move areas etc is a normal reaction if you have close friends family etc in that area or just memories itself can make a move hard. can i ask what you mean by a ‘event to happen’? do you mean the mh team? or other ppl in general. here for you always ellie ❤️
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,903 The Mix Elder
    @eylah wat I mean is wen I'm on my n I think there's no one I panic then I say how I feel online to prove to ppl I'm a human being. Y does it have to be tht far in 4 ppl to do anything?
    Crazy mad insane
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,615 An Original Mixlorian
    @ellie2000 im so sry i only just seen this tag. i know how it feels when your on your own and you feel like you have noone but you have your mum and everyone at the mix are always here for you. we can see your human but you shouldn’t have to prove yourself bc of others making you feel like that. im sry i dont understand what you mean by to far in for ppl to do anything. do you mean to far for ppl to support you ? if so then im sry you feel like that and your never to far for ppl to support you bc your deserving of support & kindness by everyone in your life. sending you hugs 🫂
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,903 The Mix Elder
    @eylah normally my complaints get ignored. Wen I a total meltdown n vent my feelings, actions r taken, y?
    Crazy mad insane
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,615 An Original Mixlorian
    @ellie2000 im sry your complaints get ignored do they get ignored by your manager? bc if so bc you have complained abt him that might be why. Im not sure why when you have a meltdown why ppl take action but it shouldnt be like that bc you should be heard without needing to be upset. hugs 🫂 hope you have a gd christmas ellie ❤️
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,903 The Mix Elder
    @eylah I got to say sorry now even though he's a bully but all the statements I put in the email were true. N they didn't mean their apology last time.
    Crazy mad insane
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,903 The Mix Elder
    I had a nice Xmas 😊
    Crazy mad insane
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,615 An Original Mixlorian
    ellie2000 wrote: »
    @eylah I got to say sorry now even though he's a bully but all the statements I put in the email were true. N they didn't mean their apology last time.

    can i ask why you have to say sry? bc it seems like you have done nothing wrong but hes in the wrong. im sry your having to deal with this ellie bc you deserve to live in and to be surrounded by ppl who are kind and supportive not a nasty person your manger seems to be. do you think maybe talking to someone abt him will help? bc im just thinking abt your wellbeing. im here for you always 💕
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,615 An Original Mixlorian
    ellie2000 wrote: »
    I had a nice Xmas 😊

    im rly glad you had a nice christmas you deserve it 💕
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
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