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Feeling judged and singled out

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edited June 2024 in Health & Wellbeing
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  • VicK_toriousVicK_torious Inactive Posts: 115 The Mix Convert
    edited June 2024
    @Creativeboy23 I'd like to start this text by firstly telling you how proud I trully am for you that you've developed your independance and have been succeeding at so many hard tasks such as budgeting and cooking! It's trully inspiring when I see people going against people's bad attitudes, words, and treatment. I know it's extremely hard and you've done so amazing this far. I also know how hard it is to leave bad experiences behind. Sometimes these haunt us like a reocurring nightmare. No matter who or what people say, you are so much worth. You've got plenty to learn and plenty to win and lose in this life of yours. Take every comment, every judgement into account, but don't let it shape you if it won't be for the better. You will get to know yourself better and introduce you to people that will love you inconditionally and appreciate you deeply. People that will fall for your attractiveness, but will stay for who you are. Don't give up trying and keep in mind that bad judgement is only a way for many people to try and hide their own insecurities by making you feel less capable than them so they feel superior.

    Keep doing your own amazing thing, developing and doing your best <3
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  • VicK_toriousVicK_torious Inactive Posts: 115 The Mix Convert
    edited June 2024
    @Creativeboy23 I'm not doing my best really. I've been battling different forms of anxiety since I was a kid, however I feel really torn out the last year. I've been really poorly mentally and that also affects my physical health as well, which is not ideal if you also have health anxiety lol. My panic attacks have come back since they stopped 4 years ago, and I have started to get really angry and irritated easily which I can't help at all, and I sometimes take all this anger out in front of my close people. I've never been aggressive towards someone else, neither verbally or physically, but I'm really 'aggressive' towards my self. I talk really bad about me and sometimes shout out really mean things to myself. This is not the best thing for the people who see me every day.. I have deep scars which I also really hate about my body, and I can't find any way to feel relieved at the moment. I'm not feeling comfortable in my body even though for some it's 'ideal', for me it's really ugly and feels wrong in a way. I sometimes really wish I was not so determined and overachiever. It's become an obsession to be academically and professionally 'perfect' that I've started to doubt the reason I even try so much.
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