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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 12 Settling in
edited January 2021 in Health & Wellbeing
I had to flee from a family member a few months ago because of domestic abuse and I cant get in touch with any of my other family because things would get back to her so I've had to cut of all my family I have. So Christmas and nye has been the first on my own. I had a breakdown well I've had multiple breakdowns but at 00:01 I had another big breakdown because of how another year is here, another year I dont want to live, I got 20mins into 2021 until self harming. Hearing the evil spirits telling me to kill myself, writing it on my skin and on walls only way I can stop them temporary is to harm myself
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  • Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
    edited January 2021
    Hey Anya I’m really sorry to hear that, things sound extremely  tough. I don’t have any advice I just wanted to say we’re All here for you. 
    Have you been able to talk to a gp or someone you trust about the self harm. You shouldn’t have to deal with everything  on your own.  Big hugs. I’m always happy to listen if you ever need someone to talk to. 
    Sorry if this sounded rude. Always here if you need anything .  <3
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,759 Skive's The Limit
    Hey. 

    I’m so sorry you’re struggling so bad with new year. It can be a time or reflection and looking to the new year.
     I guess all we can do is take one day at a time. And be kind you our selves <3

     it’s good  that you take back control even if that does mean self harming. Just make sure you stay safe when you self harm. 
    ~Probably dead now
  • Former MemberFormer Member Keep being you<3 Posts: 1,489 Wise Owl
    edited September 2024
    @Past User Hi I’m sorry you are having a hard time if you ever want to talk just drop me a message 💗
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 131 The Mix Convert
    edited September 2024
    @Past User 

    Hi Anya I'm really sorry that you're going through this. If you want to talk about anything, direct message me We're all here for you if you need a chat. 

    -Liam ❤️
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  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,759 Skive's The Limit
    edited September 2024
    Heya @Past User
    That sounds like an awful lot of things going on for you right now so I just want to say I hope you can give time to self care <3. 

    New Years is an awful time please take one day at a time and remember you’re doing your best!

    how are things doing at the moment?
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    ~Probably dead now
  • Former MemberFormer Member Obnoxiously Large Anchor Posts: 1,201 Wise Owl
    edited September 2024
    Hi @Past User I've got some experience with estrangement. If you're at uni or college it's worth reaching out to them and letting them know. They can provide you with some relevant support. 

    I'm not fully estranged, I have contact with my family but I don't live with any of them and some of the relationships are tough. That's not my fault and it's not your fault with your family. 
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