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Premature ejaculation

DaveA64DaveA64 Posts: 2 Literally just got here
I would like to talk to someone for help with premature ejaculation


  • AidanAidan Clever idiot Posts: 2,947 Boards Guru
    Hey, and welcome to the Mix!

    Have you gotten any medical advice about this? The NHS says:
    It can sometimes help to:
    • masturbate an hour or 2 before having sex
    • use a thick condom to help decrease sensation
    • take a deep breath to briefly shut down the ejaculatory reflex (an automatic reflex of the body during which ejaculation occurs)
    • have sex with your partner on top (to allow them to pull away when you are close to ejaculating)
    • take breaks during sex and think about something boring


    It can be embarassing to talk about so well done for reaching out!- and I hope things go well! :)
    but idk tho
  • LaineLaine Fruit loop Gone for gooPosts: 2,733 Boards Champion
    Hey super well done for reaching out!

    Have you been experiencing this long? talked to anyone about it yet like a healthcare professional? 
    it can feel embarrassing but its best to talk about these things for our health and sex of any kind is normal and nothing to be ashamed of.

    We're all here for you! :)

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  • Tee ATee A Posts: 123 The Mix Convert


    Thanks for sharing because this is very common but most people are quite embarrassed about it!

    I just wanted to suggest that maybe you should try talking to your partner about it so can 'clear the air' before trying any treatments such as drug therapies.

    Sometimes a simple conversation with your partner about something personal may help your partner further understand thus resolve this concern.

    Good Luck

    Tee A :)

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