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Im back to square one (sorry another problem)
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I bet your all thinking “Oh my God its her again, what does she want this time?” It just never seems to be a good time for me though. Oh well I don’t know if this is a big deal to anybody else but it is to me.
Anyway it is my friend Laura’s birthday on Saturday. We decided we were going to do something for her birthday. Anyway today me and a few mates were talking and I asked if anybody was out tomorrow night. Nobody answered me. Then two of my mates started whispering to each other. I didn’t have a clue what was going on. Then Lucy said were going bowling. I said “oh ok then,” Then I was expecting them to ask me if I was still going as it is for Laura’s birthday. But then they just went so no nobody is out. I went “oh so am I out on my own?” They just said yes. I asked them why I wasn’t invited and she just all looked at me. Then Lucy told me it was because one of my supposed best friends didn’t want me to go so they all decided I shouldn’t go. I just walked off and broke down crying. None of them seemed to care. Everybody is going but me and now I just feel betrayed by my friends. I feel like I have nobody. Im feel like I’m back to square one again cause I cut myself again. I feel like my whole life has been turned upside down. I haven’t done anything to hurt or betray my friends. What have I done wrong? What should I do???
Edited to add that were a big group. There is 44 of us. Including lads etc... We don't get on with many other people. We have all the friends we need in the group. It is like group rivalry. there are 3 groups and thats it. So theres no way i could go to another group of friends. And even if i could i wouldn't want to. I love my friends to pieces.
Anyway it is my friend Laura’s birthday on Saturday. We decided we were going to do something for her birthday. Anyway today me and a few mates were talking and I asked if anybody was out tomorrow night. Nobody answered me. Then two of my mates started whispering to each other. I didn’t have a clue what was going on. Then Lucy said were going bowling. I said “oh ok then,” Then I was expecting them to ask me if I was still going as it is for Laura’s birthday. But then they just went so no nobody is out. I went “oh so am I out on my own?” They just said yes. I asked them why I wasn’t invited and she just all looked at me. Then Lucy told me it was because one of my supposed best friends didn’t want me to go so they all decided I shouldn’t go. I just walked off and broke down crying. None of them seemed to care. Everybody is going but me and now I just feel betrayed by my friends. I feel like I have nobody. Im feel like I’m back to square one again cause I cut myself again. I feel like my whole life has been turned upside down. I haven’t done anything to hurt or betray my friends. What have I done wrong? What should I do???
Edited to add that were a big group. There is 44 of us. Including lads etc... We don't get on with many other people. We have all the friends we need in the group. It is like group rivalry. there are 3 groups and thats it. So theres no way i could go to another group of friends. And even if i could i wouldn't want to. I love my friends to pieces.
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honey, you need to ditch these guys cause they sound incredibly immature. They're ruining your self confidence and your gonna end up feelin worse and worse if u stay with them. You may be alone for a while until you find some friends who appreciate you for who you are, but that can only serve to make you stronger, and so you get to know youself better.
They cannot be your real friends if they treat you this way.
I know how you feel, having been in the same situation many times before.
Do yourself a favour and get rid!
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You may not wanna here the answer, but it's best out in the open.
It could be something really stupid and the rest of your so called friends feel uncomfortable in the situation & no one comforts you in fear they will also be disliked by the group.
If she dosen't give you an answer or you are really hurt by the answer she gives then just walk away with your head held high and meet new people.
Easier said than done, but i'm sure you can do it
Chin up:)
But hun, you of all people, should not be calling this girl an "immature little bitch". As someone who self harms, you should know that you can't control it.
That being said, it sounds like she's using her problem to get attention and to manipulate others, and that's not fair. She needs to get help, but if she's doing it out in the open, someone will evenually tell a teacher or nurse, or force her to go talk to someone about it.
Chin up, and get some better friends. You will be okay, and meantime, you have us to talk to. *hugs*
Has she been watching too much hollyoaks????? Sorry bit sick but if she needs pencil sharpeners to keep friends........ shes need a life as the sharpener will get blunt soon enough.
Sorry very metaphoric but if you understand you understand.