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ellie2000
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if ur been bullied by someone. is it right to make a youtube video on them? ur opinions plz. with screenshots n stuff
Crazy mad insane
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Just wondering what your reasons are for wanting to make a video? Also is there anyone in your life or at school who you could talk too about this, it's positive that you have opened up on here, we are here for you.
Where is the bullying happening? If you want to share that, totally your call.
The Mix have a super cool article all about bullying, here it is https://www.themix.org.uk/sex-and-relationships/friendship/beat-bullying-6285.html < Could be worth a read if you get a chance
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The way I look at it is if you do this video, you bringing yourself down to the bullying level that the person is doing to you,
Yes I know bullying isn't nice, it happened to me many times, I've been bullyed because of my sexuality, personality even just being myself, my most recent attack being someone putting an substance in my drunk which left me in an aroused state and something happening down their, (the best way to describe it without getting banned)
I think you need to be the better person and just ignore it and move on, I've moved on from theirs terribly people and you should too.
Love ya
davcr0ck
i would have to agree with the others on this one, making a video on this is unlikely to help the situation as a whole and in my experience has lead to even more bullying. I think if you put a video up for everyone to watch it’s just encouraging more people to have an opinion/ judgment on you/ situation which you may not agree with and may cause even more upset.
Having said this, obviously being bullied is awful and something no one should have to face so I would encourage talking to someone about it, is there anyone you know you could talk?
Alternatively, if you believe that making a video would help you in processing what has happened/ happening by just talking about it then i would suggest making the video but not publishing on any form of media, having it for yourself or even just deleting it after, could help. It would almost be like a diary entry, i find that writing stuff out, like how i feel often helps me process and makes me feel better about a situation that may have annoyed or upset me. Or if you struggle talking about how you feel face to face you could make the video and just show who you want to see it such as a close friend or parent etc, becasue opening up can be difficult.
Big love x
I personally do have my own opinion on that but yeah ive been trained to not give my opinion too much on peoples chioces and let them learn and so whatever you do im sure you will learn and make that chioce your self