if someone bullying u

ellie2000

if ur been bullied by someone. is it right to make a youtube video on them? ur opinions plz. with screenshots n stuff

Former Member

Hey Ellie,

Just wondering what your reasons are for wanting to make a video? Also is there anyone in your life or at school who you could talk too about this, it's positive that you have opened up on here, we are here for you. 

Where is the bullying happening? If you want to share that, totally your call. 

The Mix have a super cool article all about bullying, here it is https://www.themix.org.uk/sex-and-relationships/friendship/beat-bullying-6285.html < Could be worth a read if you get a chance

Remember your not alone, we are here for you

Former Member

Hey Ellie

Personally, I wouldn't really say it's right. I think that would be a bit mean and disrespectful, and I believe in love and that everyone has rights and feelings, rather than revenge or anything.

But on the other hand, I definitely see how tempting it may be... And bullying is not okay, and I don't think their actions should go unnoticed. Bullying takes place in quite a lot of forms, so my approach would vary a little depending on the situation.

I'm really sorry you're being bullied, that must be horrid Would you like to share more about this (e.g., who's doing it and what they're doing)?

Sending hugs if you need them

Former Member

Hey Ellie 

The way I look at it is if you do this video, you bringing yourself down to the bullying level that the person is doing to you, 

Yes I know bullying isn't nice, it happened to me many times, I've been bullyed because of my sexuality, personality even just being myself, my most recent attack being someone putting an substance in my drunk which left me in an aroused state and something happening down their, (the best way to describe it without getting banned) 

I think you need to be the better person and just ignore it and move on, I've moved on from theirs terribly people and you should too. 

Love ya 
davcr0ck 

Former Member

No, it's not right at all to make a video. Someone made a video of me at school being bullied. It is not nice at all. 

Former Member

Hi Ellie 

i would have to agree with the others on this one, making a video on this is unlikely to help the situation as a whole and in my experience has lead to even more bullying. I think if you put a video up for everyone to watch it’s just encouraging more people to have an opinion/ judgment on you/ situation which you may not agree with and may cause even more upset. 

Having said this, obviously being bullied is awful and something no one should have to face so I would encourage talking to someone about it, is there anyone you know you could talk? 

Alternatively, if you believe that making a video would help you in processing what has happened/ happening by just talking about it then i would suggest making the video but not publishing on any form of media, having it for yourself or even just deleting it after, could help. It would almost be like a diary entry, i find that writing stuff out, like how i feel often helps me process and makes me feel better about a situation that may have annoyed or upset me. Or if you struggle talking about how you feel face to face you could make the video and just show who you want to see it such as a close friend or parent etc, becasue opening up can be difficult. 

Big love x

ellie2000

I don't normally get angry bout ppl. its come to the point where I've had enough n they need to know it feels

Siena

You do what ever you think is right. Think about pros and cons of it and what you think you want to do. 

I personally do have my own opinion on that but yeah ive been trained to not give my opinion too much on peoples chioces and let them learn and so whatever you do im sure you will learn and make that chioce your self