"Be grateful for what you have"
I'm really pissed off with people who make me feel bad about moaning and I should be grateful cuz others have worse situations than me and would love what I have. Like saying I'm lucky to have a family and a home when my parents and family and other people are forever telling me off and nagging me and having high expectations on me and get on my nerves, and saying they wish they'd get told off harshly by parents too if it means to do anything to have a family and a home to go to. Definitions of a "perfect life" differ from person to person, no one should be making me feel bad about ranting and being angry and unhappy no matter how bad their life is compared to mine. They're only saying that because they've never experienced such events before but once they do experience them they'll realise how really hateful it feels to be treated the way I do. Why should I be grateful when people especially my family are horrid to me and for other stuff I don't like, it's hateful to be grateful! I just want to move away from them and only see them occasionally and hardly have anything to do with anyone.