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Unpleasant responses from discussion boards
I really dont like how some people response to my problems on the message boards, especially the pretty big ones. They criticise and tell me whats what, like saying “your parents are the ones who raised and cherished and they will always pick you up when you fall and you must see them as people" or “you should be grateful for a family." Or they say stuff against me like "you're living under their roof so you have to obey their rules regardless of how old you are." They dont consider my emotions or help me actually stop the person or things thats annoying me. Its like theyre saying im the problem and telling me off for ranting. Never mind if people having worse than me, i want all my problems to stop asap! And why are they people who do loads for you are the most horrible people, as if I chose them for parents! Why should I be grateful when they're so horrible, it's hateful to be grateful! It's not about how someone is, it's no excuse for how they treat me, and they don't treat me like people by harsh disciplining me. Or they say things against me like "you'll feel lonely living alone". I don't care about loneliness and isolation at all, as long as there's no one being mean to me and setting boundaries and rules against me! When i rant off about my problems you're not meant to bother about agreeing or disagreeing or agreeing with who or whatever I'm angry with or tell me that's just how it is or I'm being too sensitive and overreacting but go against what's annoying me instead of going against me and imagine being in my shoes since im the victim. and no giving reasons why they treat me how they do. i dont care about why, the “why" just makes the situation carry on and makes it feel like its my fault. or telling me I'll do the same mean annoying things when I'm older like to imagine being a parent myself and i should treat mine the way i want my kids to treat me. i am NEVER EVER becoming a parent!
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